Does FOB think i have nothing better to do...

[sweetlullaby]

i know exactly what you mean! well for a fob that supposidly cares so much etc and wants to provide for him he's seen matthew once and spent a fiver on a stupid teddy thats lying in the bag still under my bed somewhere and i havnt heard from him since last monday when i told him if he continued to threaten me and harrass me he could take me to court coz he wudnt get to see LO. So im not even going to bother with csa if he doesnt make the effort why should i force him? And i can manage fine on my own and agree about anything he wud give wud just be a bonus. i want the same either for FOB to completly wise up, provide for LO, stop threatening me, stop treating my son like a show off possession of his or just f*** off altogether which would be a lot easier instead of this all talkno action and the novelty factor in having a child to show off to their mates!

 

[teal]

I know I've not had my baby yet but I feel the same about csa. For me I think it would just cause more problems than it would be worth. I agree about the pride thing aswell - I don't want anything from him.

 

[lou_w34]

Exactly! Im fed up of my baby being a toy or possession he can show off... When i told him he couldnt bring his friends down to see baby, he suddenly didnt want to come down anymore... twat!

I mean why should i sit there with people i dont like, who were horrible to me, while he shows of my child to them. No way!

The csa will cause more problems then its worth i thinks.

Arrrggggg they make me so angry!

xx

 

[sweetlullaby]

Exactly im the same why the hell should i let FOB bring all his mates round who i either dont like or dont know and sit with a room full of strangers while he shows off his "new toy". Which is the real impression he gives me. Matthew is just some shiney new toy that he wants to take out and drive around in his car showing off to his mates. Well i dont bloody think so. I wont have anyone treat my baby like that! Especially not someone who's been threatening me and still wants a dna test done even though he knows LO is his child!

We dont have to take their s***! Kind of ranted there but grrr it makes me sooo mad that they get on like this !!

 

[lou_w34]

Makes me mad too!!!
Luckily i dont think were gunna have to put up with him anymores... i havent heard from him since he asked to come down with xmas presents and that was before new years.

I dont understand why he wants a dna... yet he wants to be involved at the same time?? Cant have it both ways!

xxx