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Lucky mum to 2 munchkins!
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When I was off on mat leave/part time I did everything around the house and for DD- to the point where I think I gave him ridiculously high expectations.
Since sept I've been working full time and obviously towards the end of my pregnancy so he's had to do ALOT more. When I was off with exhaustion and I was worrying about missing work he told me it was a good thing and not to rush back, I asked him if it was because he had dinner cooked again etc and he said yes!!
I'm now suffering severe SPD and can't do anything at all, not even lift dd. My mum helps all day then he has to help when he comes home. He won't moan about it to my face but I can see he's finding it hard. He has to do everything for dd, house, dog and school work.
I think he's going to get a shock when new baby is here. He said I'm so lucky I can be off 'chilling out' all day!!! With a 2 year old and newborn?!!!?!?! It's obviously not going to be like it was last time- and that was hard enough on our relationship. I just don't think they get it. When I was admitted to hospital this weekend and he had DD he said it was easy and 'so fun' but I came home to full bins, washing in machine and DD's stuff everywhere!! And my parents helped out loads! I'd love to see how they'd really cope if left alone with a toddler all week!!
Since sept I've been working full time and obviously towards the end of my pregnancy so he's had to do ALOT more. When I was off with exhaustion and I was worrying about missing work he told me it was a good thing and not to rush back, I asked him if it was because he had dinner cooked again etc and he said yes!!
I'm now suffering severe SPD and can't do anything at all, not even lift dd. My mum helps all day then he has to help when he comes home. He won't moan about it to my face but I can see he's finding it hard. He has to do everything for dd, house, dog and school work.
I think he's going to get a shock when new baby is here. He said I'm so lucky I can be off 'chilling out' all day!!! With a 2 year old and newborn?!!!?!?! It's obviously not going to be like it was last time- and that was hard enough on our relationship. I just don't think they get it. When I was admitted to hospital this weekend and he had DD he said it was easy and 'so fun' but I came home to full bins, washing in machine and DD's stuff everywhere!! And my parents helped out loads! I'd love to see how they'd really cope if left alone with a toddler all week!!