don't know if i can post here :S

[wanaBmummy]

heya everyone i was briefly in the teen pregnancy section as i got pregnant with an IUD fitted but miscarried at around 6 weeks i went through quite a rough and emotional few weeks after that its not something i ever expected to have to deal with and yes im 19 but i was absoloutly devestated. i know we wern't trying but ive always known i'm meant to be a mother.

anyway i'm writting here because its now been 2 months..ive been waiting for my scan appointment to see if the IUD is fitted properly and thats on the 26th july BUT we think we might be pregnant again!!! :S :S

we are doing a test tomorrow and will be off to the docs next week but i just don't think i can go through that again i mean theres the risk of eptopic pregnancy any way and then the possibility of miscarrying once the IUD has been removed as well as the fact i miscarried anyway last time. i got to the point last time where i was just shutting people out and couldn't work because i was an emotional wreck. if i am pregnant and it all works out then thats fantastic and i'll be over the moon but its just the unknown and the possibility of heart ache.

i just want to be able to say "im pregnant!! " no worrying, no risk, no emotional rollercoaster.

i'm sorry to everyone here for dumping it on you. i would appreciate any adivce and support i could get. obviously ive got the support of my parents and partner as well but i just figured you'd all have a better perspective on it.

thanks for reading anyways if you don't leave a comment.

xxxx

oooooo sorry so blonde of me i should have introduced myself ...my names stevie i'm 19, 20 in september. i'm engaged and living with my partner in a 2 bed house in south wales, uk. we both work full time in child care. i work with birth to 2 year olds and he works in the outdoors with 7 and up. (i gave you a bit more info than needed so that you know if this does all work out ..we'll be fine )

xx

 

[hb1]

Hi Stevie

I would just take one thing at a time - it's so easy to work yourself up with all the "what ifs", so maybe just concentrate on the next step and then you just need to worry about the facts - get your test and if you are pregnant go from there - speak to the dr and find out what the next step is ( scans and bloods? ).

Everyone's great on here and have been thru a loss too so understand all the worries and will be here for you Unfortunately unknown's and worry of possible heartache don't go away but it sounds like you have a great support group at home as well as on here to help you thru this - whatever the outcome.

There's no question you'll be a fab mum

hx

 

[Carmello_01]

Hi hun,

hb1 said all I wanted to say, just sending huge

 

[mommydelux]

Take it one step at a time hun! What ifs will drive you bonkers.

 

[KitKatBit]

Just wanted to say good luck with everything and it sounds like you've got the right priorities to potentially be a great Mum. You just never know what's going to happen, whatever your situation is, so you have to just trust that what's meant to be will be, although I know that's really hard. I hope everything works out for you

 

[wanaBmummy]

hey guys thanks for the support there is a great group of women on this site!! sorry to have taken so long in replying to any of you...just to say i did test and i'm not pregnant and my body the next day decided to give me proof of this by giving me the worst period cramps ive had in a long time...typical :/ anyway thanks again and i hope everything works out the way you all want it to. good luck all and have happy futures xxx

 

[hb1]

In a way it's good - if you are consolodated that you want to start ttc now then you can have the IUD removed and make sure your body is all ready to be a home for a little sticky bean without the stress you've just gone thru. After a mc it will always be harder and you will always worry that bit more - as long as you have people to lean on in those times then you'll get thru

Wish you well whatever you decide

hx