Don't know wot to feel....

[Blue Tulip]

I lost my baby last year aged 3 days and the tests they did after her death to diagnose the condition she had were inconclusive..

this leaves us in a very awkard position cuz there is a chance that she may have had a genetic condtion....

im 22 weeks pregnant now and the hospital has offered me scans every 4 weeks from the time im 28 weeks.. well there's nothing more they can do and after the baby is born they will take her into Intensive care to monitor and do tests...

I want to be hopeful and happy but I just feel so scared .. wot if wot happend last time happens again.. i just dont know wot to do ..........
i feel so helpless

 

[Wishfull]

Im so sorry for your loss. An i cant really give you alot of advice as i have never carried full term. But the doctors im sure will take wonderfull care for you an your baby. Try not to feel scared sweetie. Though you must be after your other wee baby.

Again so sorry for you darlin. But all the best with you an your new baby.

Take care.

x

 

[v2007]

Im so sorry ofr your loss, she is gorgeous.

My daughter sadly died last year. She was a fullterm stillbirth.

Im a member of another forum called SANDS.

There is many Mums on there thats have suffered neo-natal deaths and have had more children and/or currently pregnant again.

This may help you and may get answers to many of your questions.

V x x x

 

[WelshGirl]

I am so sorry for the loss of your precious little girl.

I can't know exactly how you feel as our situation was different, but our son was Stillborn in January this year. I am pg again, and I am constantly worried & scared that something will go wrong again. So I can understand how you feel in that sense.

Take & ask for as much support as you need from the midwives & doctors.....I have been having scans every fortnight, and see my midwife in between my scans, and having that reassurance helps a lot. I also use another forum called SANDS, for parents who have lost children & talking to others who have been through similar really helps when I feel like I'm loosing the plot!

You just have to take one day at a time hun......it will be hard until you have your baby in your arms, and know that they are ok.....but if you take all the support you can get, you will get there.

Pm me anytime if you want someone to talk to.

xxxx

 

[tillymum]

I'm so sorry for you loss, she's beautiful.
I can't imagine what you are going through. I really hope that everything will be fine with this time round.

 

[Drazic<3]

Im so sorry for your loss. Your little angel is truely beautiful.
I cant imagine how you are feeling now, but i think the forum which has already been mentioned could be an amazing source of support. Just hearing from other mothers who are in the same situation or who have got through it might help.
My OH best friend lost his son at 34 weeks, but they have gone on to have two happy and healthy little girls.
Please, never lose hope

 

[becky77]

oh hun your little one looks so beautiful perhaps to beautiful for this world.
the sands site sounds like it might help, and ask the midwifes if they can put you in touch with a support group.
good luck i pray everything goes well with this pregnancy for you and your little one

 

[SJK]

so sorry xx