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bathbabe

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Why can other people do it and not me? My OH has just text me to say his friend is pregnant but I cant even bring myself to be happy for them. Tbh its just pissed me off and I KNOW this isnt the 'reasonable' respose. I just... feel like such a failure. :cry:
 
Hey :) ... Haing in there, and your response was absolutely reasonable, I get the same way when dh wants to tell me about someone I don't even know on facebook who's pregnant- I wish men would clue in a bit more... It's natural to be totally pissed, but you need to take some deep breaths and remove the thoughts from your mind because you CAN do it, and you WILL do it ! It just takes more time for some of us than others. positive attitude and as little stress as possible WILL up your chances so concentrate on that :)
 
Totally normal reaction. I used to recite to myself. "I'm happy for them but sad and angry for myself". Hang in there. Hugs xxxx
 
Big hugs hun, i know how you feel :( Its completely normal and fingers crossed it'll be your turn soon x
 
I completely know where youre coming from. Just lately fb is full of scan pics pg news and births and child pics. Feel like deleting certain people but know this is immature. Youll get there one day, we all will. Try to stay positive hun, you are definitely not a faliure. Us ltttcers must stay strong!!!
Hugs xxx
Ps tell oh how you feel, he might be a little more sensitive then. Mine has been.x
 

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