Dream

[cebethel]

This didn't quite fit anywhere, so I thought I'd give it it's own thread
I'm feeling a little sad today. Nothing major!

I had a dream last night that I had a little girl, not only that, my mum was there holding her.
The dream felt so real! I had a little cry this morning.........I miss my mum so much, I wish she could share in everything that is going on

 

[dachsundmom]

I just realized over the weekend while my MIL was here that my mother would never meet our LO.

 

[readyformore]

to you both

 

[cebethel]

I just realized over the weekend while my MIL was here that my mother would never meet our LO.

It's so hard isn't it? She is one of the 2 (DH the other) most important people that I would want involved.

Brooke

 

[dachsundmom]

I totally understand!

 

[NorthStar]

Eva and Brooke

You can tell the little ones stories about your mums, and show them pictures so they know about their Gran.

 

[Natsby]

oh dear, hugs to you both.
So sad to lose a parent, not much worse in the world I recon.

so now is not the moment to share my dream?? coz I came on here to tell you I dreamed I bd with OH and peed on him by mistake!! But that would be a cheap attempt to make you laugh and cheer you up so I´ll keep it to myself.

 

[Desperado167]

Eva and Brooke

 

[dachsundmom]

Thank you Nats! Nothing like a golden shower to lift the mood! Lol

I might have mentioned this before, but I only have one pic of my mother; I had my house flood about 6 years ago and I lost most of my personal property bc I stupidly stored it in my garage. My family has ome, but said I could have them when they die, lol.

 

[Indigo77]

Won't they make u copies?

 

[dachsundmom]

They've not been too forthcoming with them...we all had a big falling out when my mother went into hospice. She had pancreatic cancer, no cure and we knew it was terminal. But, when I made the decision to stop treatment, I had her POA, it all got very ugly...somments like "you couldn't wait to pull the plug, could you?"

 

[Indigo77]

Omg! Well, where the hell were they when it was happening?

 

[Indigo77]

Damn, Brooke....so sorry....

 

[dachsundmom]

They were spread out over three different states; came in town long enough to piss me off, lol.

 

[BlueHadeda]

I'm with you ladies on this one...

My mom's passed on 10 years ago. We were so close. I miss her something terrible. She did get to meet my eldest, he was 4 months when she died. But I so wish she could've met my other two as well, especially my little girl.

Dachsundmom, I'm sorry it ended all so badly for you. Must've been a horrible time in your life.

 

[Indigo77]

Yes....my SIL had some judgements of her own when we had to put my father in hospice.... but, I can't imagine going thru it alone....I had my siblings and DH....

Eva...sorry you don't have your mother around....

 

[Desperado167]

They've not been too forthcoming with them...we all had a big falling out when my mother went into hospice. She had pancreatic cancer, no cure and we knew it was terminal. But, when I made the decision to stop treatment, I had her POA, it all got very ugly...somments like "you couldn't wait to pull the plug, could you?"

So sorry Hun u had to go thru that ,

 

[cebethel]

Thank you Nats! Nothing like a golden shower to lift the mood! Lol

I might have mentioned this before, but I only have one pic of my mother; I had my house flood about 6 years ago and I lost most of my personal property bc I stupidly stored it in my garage. My family has ome, but said I could have them when they die, lol.

What? What on earth are they doing?

 

[cebethel]

They've not been too forthcoming with them...we all had a big falling out when my mother went into hospice. She had pancreatic cancer, no cure and we knew it was terminal. But, when I made the decision to stop treatment, I had her POA, it all got very ugly...somments like "you couldn't wait to pull the plug, could you?"

OMG

 

[dachsundmom]

They are holding a grudge, lol. It's a lot to do with their feeling for my father, which I cannot deny them, but they cannot separate the two.