Dress for a wedding reception. help please

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So me, my partner and our daughter was invited yesterday to a wedding reception for next Saturday! Which is one week today!

I have said can we wiggle out of it, and he got all stroppy with me and said no. I haven't really got any spare cash to buy a whole new outfit, plus daughters and a gift. I also don't really have the time to get one, as i work 7-7 5 days a week

so can someone suggest an outfit for me please. I am a size 14/16, but have a problem with my tummy area :( so baggy around there would be great, (trying to loose the weight from there but its not shifting and if i wear anything tight it will look like i am 6 months pregnant!), I also never wear dresses or skirts, as i don't like my legs, and i don't tan so I am as white as a ghost, but I dont mind something around about the knee area in length

I have no idea what clothes suit my shape and figure, so i dont know what to buy. My oh stupid suggestion was to wear jeans, and you dont want to know my reply to him!

Thanks
 
I just had a very quick look on new look, and found this for £5, bargain!! You might not like it, everyone's taste is different and I know you said no dresses.....but how about a pair POF thick black tights with one? I hate my legs and they're stupidly white. Technically it'll be September so tights are fine I think!! Because this is elasticated under the bust it'll hide any belly you're worried about. Have a look at there stuff though, there's quite a lot of cheap dresses.

https://m.newlook.com/mcs/publish/4923/76718?prodid=284298149&cat=cat10019&name=Dresses
 
Or I just found this maxi skirt, I'm thinking match with with a plain black vest top (black hides anything!) and a chunky colourful necklace.

https://m.newlook.com/mcs/publish/4923/76718?prodid=284298149&cat=cat10019&name=Dresses
 
^Thanks I liked the dress, shame I am not a size 8 though (thats all that was in stock)

I dont mind a dress, as long as its sort of knee length, im more worried about my tummy, i just dont want to look 6 months pregnant
 
Ahh rubbish I forgot to check sizes, ill keep looking!! With a dress that's elasticated under the boobs your belly won't show, I'm a size 22 with a big belly and that's the only dress I can wear.
 
i just found a style i like, will show you a photo, but have no idea where to look for it

thanks :flower: x
 
https://www.flickr.com/photos/pascailpamela/7161264316/lightbox/
I like this style
 
Omg that dress is beautiful. That's exactly the style I like too. I've just had a very quick look on asos and this is the closest I can find.

https://www.asos.com/ASOS/ASOS-Ruch...=53&sh=0&pge=1&pgesize=204&sort=3&clr=Magenta

I'm not sure where else to look, being a 22 the shops I can go to are limited!! Warehouse maybe but they're not cheap. Ill have a think while I crack on with housework.
 
Or this, it's £40 so not cheap but they do a long version n navy.

https://www.asos.com/ASOS/ASOS-Skat...400=53&sh=0&pge=1&pgesize=204&sort=3&clr=Navy
 
Thanks, let me know if you think of any

the dress i showed you, what style would you call it?
 
This dress is sooooooo flattering. I have it in a peach polka dot and my problem area is my tummy but honestly it skimmed it so well https://www.newlook.com/shop/womens/dresses/pink-blue-ruffle-front-chiffon-dress_290396676

This would be flattering too
https://www.newlook.com/shop/womens/dresses/navy-knot-front-chiffon-dip-hem-dress_275253841

This is gorgeous but with it being maxi I am not sure if it is too bridesmaidy https://www.newlook.com/shop/womens...lished-one-shoulder-maxi-prom-dress_275487761

This maxi dress will skim your tummy and obviously hide your legs
https://www.dorothyperkins.com/en/d...all-203640/red-maxi-dress-1870065?bi=1&ps=200

This looks a bit shorter than you would like but the model is 5ft 9.5 so depends on your height https://www.clothingattesco.com/ice...hop,evening-occasion-wear,all-womens-occasion

I love this and it would be flattering
https://www.clothingattesco.com/ice...hop,evening-occasion-wear,all-womens-occasion
 
Tasha I'm so glad you got that peach polka dot dress and you like it :) I'm glad my love of searching for clothes helped someone lol.

I don't know what that style iof dress is though :( if anyone else does I'd like to know too, that's my fav style of dress. Actually I've got one that's cream with black polka dots that's a size 16, it's my 'if I ever lose weight if love to wear it again' dress!!
 
I hope you liked one of them lollipop.

I did love it thank you for finding it Boomers. It is SO flattering. I hate my tummy as I told you, but there is a photo of me and the wind is blowing against me so it is the least flattering it could be against my tummy and it still looks great. I wish I kept all my if I ever lose weight clothes as now I have about three things to wear and zero winter clothes :haha:
 
Lol glad I helped :) those style dresses are all I have in my wardrobe!! With leggings and sandals in the summer, and leggings, boots and a chunky cardi in winter. I've kept all my old clothes, I've got a chest of drawers, plus all 4 drawers under my bed full of stuff, and I'm 99% sure ill never be a 16 again but I just can't give them up!
 
The first dress isnt polka dot......... would love to see a pic of it

could someone do me a favour pretty please, I have been trying to get the new look pages to load, but it keeps saying loading......... so i dont know if they have my size or not.


https://www.newlook.com/shop/womens/dresses/bright-pink-ruffle-front-chiffon-dress-_268274976

https://www.newlook.com/shop/womens/dresses/rich-purple-knot-front-chiffon-dip-hem-dress_275253854
 
I don't think they have the peach polka dot version any more.

Both say out of stock, but they were in stock when I linked. Silly isn't it?
 
oh no! I liked both of these, they have them in loads of colours, just wanted to see what colours they had in my size so I could order a load

back to the drawing board. Any more help would be gratefully received :flower:
 
I was just having a look on dorothy Perkins because they've got 25% off everything this week and saw this:

https://m.dorothyperkins.com/mt/www...78032?refinements=Size{1}~[14|16]&bi=1&ps=200

Not exactly what you wanted but still cute! Might be worth having more of a look, with that kind of discount.
 
Thanks, though im not overly keen on that one. god i am such hard work!
 

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