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driving myself crazy.

nicole6212

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Sorry if anything that follows is tmi...
Here's some background info:
In may, 2014, my husband and I DTD on the 18th, 22nd and 25th, I had a BFP on June 10th. I miscarried July 10th, I had had intermittent light spotting for 1-2 weeks before that. I finally stopped bleeding from the miscarriage on august 2nd. I did have medical management, but it didn't really work for me. My husband and I DTD august 4th, 10th, and 13th, and I had some spotting on Aug 22nd. My period started the next day, same as its always been, and lasted until the 28th.
The thing is, right now I'm exhausted, have an aching back, my bladder is the size of a pea, I'm so hungry all the time, im bloated and gassy, and I feel sick if I don't eat... If my boobs were hurting, it would be the exact same symptoms as I was having in June/July.
There's no way I can be pregnant, is there? I'm going to take a test tomorrow, but if for some reason its positive, how can I tell if I'm actually pregnant, or if its left over from the miscarriage?
I'm scared now, because i did not handle the miscarriage well. I went back to smoking the day it was confirmed via ultrasound (and i had a few after so its not like they could miss it) and i was drinking, and i never drink. I didnt drink a lot, like 15 drinks from july 10th to aug 28th, but if I am lucky enough to be pregnant again (trying not to get my hopes up) then I messed up badly. :(
Has anyone been through this?
 
Sorry to hear you are having such a hard time. I had something similar about 6 weeks after my mc, and 2 weeks before my first AF showed. I suddenly started having all the same symptoms as I had when I was pregnant, and it was showing as pos on the hpt. I had to have blood tests about a week apart to check whether the hormone level was increasing or decreasing. Mine turned out to be leftover hormones.
Either way, you have to know what's going on. If it turns out that you are pregnant again, don't worry about the drinking and smoking. Plenty of people go on to have healthy babies after drinking and smoking the whole way through! Good luck xx
 

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