Early 30's TTC #1

[MrsPTTC]

Thanks regal, you too!

Mrsmax & crumbs - that is so funny!! Crazy what some people think is a long time. Actually a friend from work did comment on how lucky my BFF was falling 1st month as it took her 4!! x

 

[hopefulmama2b]

Whoopty do! 4 months!!!

(disclaimer: this is not an insult to those who have gotten quick BFP- I've got two!, but it's just amazing what people think "a long time" is. Now I really understand too-9 cycles post mc!)

 

[MrsPTTC]

LOL @ Hopeful x

 

[rosababy]

Hey ladies. Trying hard to be positive, but just not feeling optimistic. I have a feeling it's going to take me a few ivf cycles. Sigh. Why me? Okay. Pity party over.

 

[MrsPTTC]

Aw how come Rosa? Sometimes people get their bfp's when they least expect it so fingers crossed for you x

 

[rosababy]

Oh I dunno. I've just had so many bfns in the past that I just can't picture getting pregnant. Like I said...pity party, table for one...

 

[Crumbs]

Rosa, it'll be fine! You'll see But it is completely normal to have doubts now and then

I decided to stay home today. No more crazy Swedish tests, no more sitting for presentations about some organization offering help (which no one in my class actually qualifies for). I'm gonna sit and home today, clean, and browse the boards.

I wish we all can be pregnant already! But I know when it comes, it won't matter how long it took, all that matters is the bundle of joy it brings. (Hallmark moment over).

 

[mrsmax]

You ladies are great

Crumbs - I am home today as well with a really bad cold. Sniff. Feel guilty but gong to try and Relax and watch terrible TV.

Rosa - you are bound to feel a rollercoster of positive days and negative ones. I get that every few hours. I have a great feeling about this first cycle of IVF for you, but even if it is BFn you will get that BFP very soon,

I got some spotting in the middle of the night, which is first time ever. Was quite excited, but then realised that 6DPO is a bit early for implantation. Sigh.

 

[hopefulmama2b]

6 isn't too early MrsMax! Could be a sign! FX!

 

[rosababy]

6 dpo is definitely not too early for implantation bleeding! In fact, it's right on schedule!!

Thanks, ladies. Just feeling sorry for myself. I feel blessed to have good insurance so I can do this again if I need to. I just don't wanna do it again. However, now I know what to expect, and that I AM strong enough to do it again.

 

[Crumbs]

mrsmax, spotting at 6dpo, I'm excited for you! Hope you feel better soon.

Rosa, that's IF you need to. We're all rooting for you!

 

[MsJMouse]

MrsMax - spotting at 6dpo could be a good sign. FX'd

Rosa - when do you have your test? I am so hopeful that you get your bfp and sticky baby this time.

Soliel - no one has said to me anything about o'ing late though I have read a book on natural fertility which doesn't seem to think it is a great thing - obviously it is better if it is earlier but you see heaps of ladies with late o that go onto have a healthy baby so......

I remember thinking how long it had taken when I got my BFP in december (6 cycles) - it just felt like so long. That just feels super quick now.

AFM - stupid body o'd on day16 so it appears to be getting earlier. No prob with that but cause I am used to oing later I feel like we came close to missing the window. I know it only takes one

Heres to some more BFPs this month

 

[rosababy]

I test Friday. Terrified. I'm already feeling af cramps.

 

[mrsmax]

Hi ladies

So - bleeding yesterday and temp dip below coverline today. I feel like my body is teasing me. I am trying to walk a carfeul line between PMA and not getting my hopes up too much. It is very hard! This would only be 4 months after m/c so would be pretty wuick, seeing as itook 13 months to get the first one.

Back to work today, although still feel crappy (flu/cold - nothing TTC exciting).

Rosa - I cant wait for tomorrow. YOu must be so nervous. Are you and dh going to look at the test at the same time? Argh!!! Good luck.

MsJ I'm glad you are oing a bit earlier now. Have you tried acupuncture? That moved my O day 3 days sooner! And I got my BFP 2 cycles of trying (not doing it at mo as waiting for FS appointment).

GL everyone - and dont let me test until next week...

 

[hopefulmama2b]

MrsMax- I saw your chart this morning and was wondering what the heck was going on. If you hadn't got a pos. opk I would've thought you o'd early, but since you're only 7 dpo I'm thinkng implantation dip and spotting!! I hope so anyway! Good luck to you!

MrsJ- I'm glad you didn't miss your window! You wanted to start o-ing earlier, right? I guess the fertility gods heard our conversation. I wish they would listen up a little more often. It sure would make things easier.

Rosa-

 

[hakunamatata]

& for all

Hope everyone has a great day

 

[hopefulmama2b]

Soliel, how's the 22nd day of pregnancy treating you?

 

[mrsmax]

Hopeful - I know. It is all a bit weird as I o'd so much later than normal (4 days earlier) and so if I hadnt got the pos OPK I would feel for sure it was the start of the witch. My body is just being weird this cycle - I hope for good reason ::

Trying not to read too much into it - but it is HARD!

How has everyone's weeks been?

 

[hopefulmama2b]

I like this thread...

https://www.babyandbump.com/pregnan...531-things-cannot-say-out-loud-stolen-bc.html

Kind of negative, but a good vent is therapeutic now and then.

 

[MrsPTTC]

Good luck for testing tomorrow Rosa!!

And FX'd Mrsmax!!

x