Early 30's TTC #1

Wow, lots of action lately! Ladies not taking this infertility crap lying down and making some moves! THAT'S what I like to see!!! :gun:

Regal, glad you went to see a specialist, and I'm glad to hear you left feeling good. My dh had a few SAs too. What's a PK test? Bummer about losing weight. :wacko: I suggest Weight Watchers. :thumbup: Works really well, and you don't feel deprived. You still get to have those little treats.

mrsmax, total crap about your insurance. :grr: I'm proud of you for saving up money in case you need it for ivf. :thumbup: Hopefully you won't need it. Or maybe an IUI, which is way cheaper. I've never understood the insurance in the UK. Seems so unfair. You're going to be pregnant soon!!!

hopeful, YAY FOR AN IUI!!!! Unmedicated...so do they track your ovulation or do you just go in when you get a +opk? I'm so excited for you!! Do you have any dates yet? Like when they think you'll be in for the actual iui? I'm not sure how that process works, since I'm sure it's different than ivf. I'm so excited!! And good for you for saving for ivf, just in case. Never hurts. You won't need it though...you'll get preggo with the iui and then you can spend the $$ on a vacation! :haha:


Afm, got all of my dates for my new ivf round, and I don't have to take any sick days for the appointments! Just the retrieval and the transfer. That's a relief! Retrieval around december 9. Things that are going differently: I'm on several new supplements and a med for my high prolactin (whatever that means...), I'm doing acupuncture, I'm doing only one med for stimulating and I'm injecting it in the am AND the pm (as opposed to last time when I had 2 meds and did them both at night). Those are some good changes. I hope this round works!
 
Rosa - sounds like you have some really positive things going on for this cycle. Yay for 9th December :dust: Re insurance in the UK - we all pay "national" insurance to the government through our wages - the more you earm the more you pay. However, each geographical area decides what to do with their budget and lots of districts restrict access to free IVF - so people like me end up paying a ton of insurance but the gvt decide that IVF isnt critical to health and so chose to use the £ on other stuff. We can get personal health insurance - which I had with work until last Jan, but it rarely covers IVF :(

It does sounds like everyone is trying new stuff - please let it work fr all of us!

Hopeful - that's great about the IUI. I really hope we are IUI cycle buddies - that would be awesome. I would like to do a couple of rounds before considering IVF too. Yipee - we will get our BFP
 
Crumbs - how's the bump doing? Let us live vicariously through you please.

MrsPttc - hows the 2WW going?
 
I just wanted to say that I'm silently rooting for all of you ladies! I still come by here everyday! I've joined new threads, but it's just NOT the same!

So :dust: and Anne Geddes! Anne Geddes? I forgot to tell you about that. Remember my fertile myrtle friend with the new "oopsie". Well she told me to look at babies! As in just stare at them and your uterus is supposed to "get itself ready". Well, I did. So instead of feeling all down and outs when I saw a cute baby, I just ooohed and awwwed. Again, I'm not sure if that really helped but that's another new thing I did this cycle.

Afm, I'm tired. The nausea's kicking in. But if I eat right away it goes away - could it really be that simple? I made an appointment for some bloodtest and urine tests and to meet with my midwife on the 16th. No ultrasound yet, since they don't offer it here so early. No idea when I can get an ultrasound but I'm just hoping everything goes well and the little bean sticks!

Have I mentioned how much I'm rooting for you all?! :pink::blue::pink::blue::yellow:
 
Thanks Crumbs. I think Piccollo said she started looking at pictures of babies when she got her BFP too. I think I will try that :)

Glad all is good - hope you have the best pregnancy ever - you deserve it and we will all be joining you soon - I promise.
 
I got lots of smiles from you girls today - between Rosa's "bringing out the guns" emoticon, Crumbs rooting for us, and mrsmax saying that we WILL all be pregnant soon! :flower: Sometimes you just need a lift in this TTC business.

So I was out of the country for 10 days and missed my nurse's call. I did bloodwork when I went for my IUI in October and apparently my prolactin is elevated (just like you rosababy). She says that I need to retest after fasting (I hadn't fasted the day of the IUI). Apparently, if your prolactin is high, a fertilized egg won't implant. :nope: Just another thing to add to the list. Anyway, I shouldn't be negative. Hopefully I'll get the script for the test and take it early next week and the bloodwork will come back fine. Women who have hypothyroidism (which I do) often have elevated prolactin levels. The nurse said that I can't do an IUI this cycle if my prolactin is high after the retest. :cry: But maybe that's why I didn't have success this past cycle?

hopefulmama, I O just fine (usu. CD 19), but my fert. doc wants me on it because he said that it creates the best possible follicle and when that happens, your luteal phase is the best it can be. I dunno. I still spotted like hell this past cycle...but that could be an effect of elevated prolactin, too (just finding this stuff out).

I like how all you girls are saving for just-in-case treatments. Our insurance doesn't cover anything fertility-related, other than a discount on the meds. Big whoop. DH thinks he's found a way for us to do IVF @ $9,000 though, which is waaay less than the $20,000+ one of our friends has to pay. I'm just hoping that IUI works for us before the year is out.

mrspttc - way to put that thermometer away! We are rooting for you girl!!

regalpeas - you have the right attitude, this weight-loss thing is all about you being as healthy as you can be to live as long as possible with those children you are going to have! Maybe by focusing on something other than baby-making, you might just get pregnant?

readyornot - yeah, I was planning to wait until after the 3 month mark. I think if I hadn't miscarried (around 9 weeks) earlier this year, I wouldn't be so cautious, but now, I'm like "I'm gonna wait" (or at least try!) before I tell.

Here's to a lovely weekend, ladies! :friends:
 
Rosa – glad to hear you’ve got a date for the next round!

Soleil – I know the Prolactin result was bad news, but as that could be why last round wasn’t successful, hopefully it’s something they can treat and you’ll get your :bfp: soon!

Mrsmax – Thanks for asking! This 2WW is the hardest yet :( Knowing I definitely ovulated & that my lining was great makes such a difference. I’m not testing for 8 days :coffee: though I could test in 5 at 10DPO if I wanted to. I’m ‘officially’ 5 DPO, though I could be 6. FF says I am 5 but the day it says I ovulated I had an early morning scan and the follicle had popped by 8am so I might have ovulated the night before or early hours of the morning. I’m trying not to SS but I’ve got creamy CM which I’ve never noticed in the LP, and I’ve got some small twinges. I’ve got a dull ache in my abdomen tonight and have a feeling it might be that damn cyst making itself known as I know it’s too early for implantation! I’m so hormonal at the minute – do you think it’s likely to be an effect of the clomid even though I took my last tablet ages ago? Everything is annoying me and stressing me out, and I’m crying over nothing. Had a row with DH tonight and he’s gone out. Apparently I am a horrible bitch like usual :rofl:

Happy weekend everyone xx
 
MrsPTTC, good luck and I hope you can hold out for 8 days! Hormones are such a nuisance sometimes! Everything's irritating me at the moment, especially my husband (this website is just about keeping me semi-sane) and I can barely look at my husband right now, let alone speak to him and the poor guy's absolutely clueless as to what he's done wrong... I feel like going up to him and giving him a hug and telling him he hasn't done anything but i need him to stay at least 10 yards away - but I don't think that'll really help!

If my (irregular) cycle is the same length as last time AF is due tomorrow, so here's to her staying away!

Good weekend to you and to all!
 
:rofl: ReadyorNot! You took the words right out of my mouth! When are you testing hun? x
 
I'm planning to test on the 10th if AF hasn't shown up by then but I'm fast losing hope - since yesterday I've been getting crampy pre-AF feelings, bloating which had subsided for a few days is back with a vengeance, and BBs sore/tender - I've been running to the loo all day to make sure AF hasn't arrived (I go straight from 0 to full flow so don't want to get caught out) and I'm considering wearing a sea sponge (tampon) tonight just in case...

by the way, where is Washington, UK? Never heard of it!
 
Don't lose hope hun! AF & pg symptoms are so similar so you might be pleasantly surprised! Sea sponge?? :haha: Washington is in the North East, between Newcastle & Sunderland :) . My dull ache got worse last night, I actually wanted a hot water bottle to take it away as it was so irritating, but I didn't dare incase it affected implantation. I don't think it is my cyst after all as its lower down & my cyst pain is usually sharp. Urgh I hate waiting! x
 
Sounds promising!! Darn that TWW... I remember somebody posting how great it would be if we could just turn flourescent green or something so that we'd know straight away as soon as we conceive and then we wouldn't have to deal with all the waiting and not knowing!

Sea sponge is one of my favourite discoveries ever! Sorry if this is a bit TMI but I hadn't been able to use regular tampons since I was a teenager, and a few years ago I tried mooncups but I can't use those either. Then a couple of years ago I started using washable sanitary towels and discovered sea sponge at the same time. They're AWESOME, and completely natural! There's loads of websites you can get them, including amazon. I TOTALLY recommend.:thumbup:
 
Sounds promising!! Darn that TWW... I remember somebody posting how great it would be if we could just turn flourescent green or something so that we'd know straight away as soon as we conceive and then we wouldn't have to deal with all the waiting and not knowing!

Sea sponge is one of my favourite discoveries ever! Sorry if this is a bit TMI but I hadn't been able to use regular tampons since I was a teenager, and a few years ago I tried mooncups but I can't use those either. Then a couple of years ago I started using washable sanitary towels and discovered sea sponge at the same time. They're AWESOME, and completely natural! There's loads of websites you can get them, including amazon. I TOTALLY recommend.:thumbup:

I bloody wish we could turn fluorescent green!! :haha: Every twinge I'm wondering could it be. I can't use tampons very well but was forced to last month when AF interrupted the last day of my beach holiday! I'm using softcups after :sex: to keep the :spermy: in place & I love them but they're not reusable & I take it you like reusable/washable things so they'd be no good. I will have to Google sea sponges! x
 
Just quickly to say hi. Mrspttc I must be very close to you tonight as I am a couple of miles from sunderland. I've had a very emotional day today want to explain but scared it would identify Mr in the outside world, but it sure made me count my blessings and made me thankful for the life I have rather than just focusing On the life I don't have right this mo. X x
 
Just quickly to say hi. Mrspttc I must be very close to you tonight as I am a couple of miles from sunderland. I've had a very emotional day today want to explain but scared it would identify Mr in the outside world, but it sure made me count my blessings and made me thankful for the life I have rather than just focusing On the life I don't have right this mo. X x

Oh hun, I hope everything is okay! :hugs:
 
Just quickly to say hi. Mrspttc I must be very close to you tonight as I am a couple of miles from sunderland. I've had a very emotional day today want to explain but scared it would identify Mr in the outside world, but it sure made me count my blessings and made me thankful for the life I have rather than just focusing On the life I don't have right this mo. X x

Hope you're ok :hugs:
 
Congrats Ready or not. Glad you didnt haveto hang around on this thread for long. H&H 9 months.

Thanks everyone for your concern - for a few hours on Saturday morning I thouht DH had been in a serious accident. Luckily he wasnt - but jeez scared me. I was hysterical for a few hours. Never want to go through that again.

How is everyone?

I am in the middle of the fertile bit and as usual at this stage I feel really positive that we'll catch the egg this time! I think it must be hormones as I know it is very unlikely based on past!!

Am spending a few minutes a day looking at pictures of babies after crumbs and Piccolo said that's what they did when they got their BFP. Who know, worth a go!!!
 
Woo hoo, congrats readyornot! How many dpo are you? Any symptoms to share? x
 

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