Early 30's TTC #1

[rosababy]

mrsP, my ob said to call when I tested positive to schedule an 8 week appointment. of course, I had already had about 10 appointments before that one with my RE. But had I conceived naturally, that's what I would have done.

Regal, at least he's taking 2 a day. That's better than none. And he's being good and taking them when you ask. Not much else they can do, really. He's had his tested right? What were the numbers?

 

[jogu07]

Yay Mrsp...Congrats......Heres wishing you H&H 9 months...I am so happy for ya...!!! I still dont believe it..!!!

Hey RP...Thanks for asking hun...just dont feel like writing anything...theres nothing much going around...currently on CD 43 and not ovulated yet, my cycles are a mess now...DH has not got his SA done yet...MIL had come to stay with us for a while and trust me what a torture it has been for me... She kept shooting all the questions regarding TTC and put me in an awkward position...!!! She kept me reminding me of my falied attempts to attain motherhood... I am feeling so down, feel like I am one barren woman who doesnt deserve kids..!!!

Sorry for the rant gals but could not refrain myself from doing it, I know its a happy moment and trust me I am very happy for all of you..!!!

God bless you all and stickiest baby dust to everyone...!!!

 

[Aisak]

Congrats MrsP! Lots and lots of BFPs here lately

 

[MrsPTTC]

Thanks Jogu & Aisak!

Jogu, sorry your MIL is being a nightmare, how insensitive! Of course you will get your bambino, your time will come. Think you need to tell DH what a his mum has been though! x

 

[mrsmax]

Jogu - good to hear from you. Been worried. We all know exatly how you feel hon - I know it deosnt help, but we have all been there and it will pass and you will get your BFP, but darn it seems so unfair at times. It took us exactly 2years, 5 ailed rounds of clomid and one IVf to get our BFP, but I got there and you will too. I know how it can hurt when people (esp MILs) are insensitive - you have to tell DH - you need his support more than ever. I told my DH if his MIl said one more critical/mean thing about TTC she wasnt allowed in the house when I was there!! Extreme, but it did the trick.

Aisak and Regal - same to you ladies. It seems such a bloomin' long and unfair journey. I am confident you will all get there - I just hope that it hurries up. Sending you all loads of love xxx

 

[pink80]

MrsP!!!!

What wonderful news - congratulations

 

[MrsPTTC]

Hi pink! Thanks hun Nice to hear from you, how have you been? x

 

[MrsPTTC]

Hey I've been upgraded to addict ha ha!

 

[pink80]

I'm ok, cant believe I'm 20 weeks next week - need to get through my scan and I hoping I'll relax a bit more

Are you going to get a ticker?

 

[jogu07]

Thanks ladies....Your support means a lot to me and has made me feel better..!!! Wish I could tell my DH that however have asked him to speak to her directly and tell her to keep out of it, we will let them know when we are pregnant...!!! Gosh she is so annoying, dont feel like talking to her...!!!

Anyways, I feel much better now and you know what I am CD 45 and FF has decided to give CH but the mother of all sorrows is it says I ovulated on CD 42 which was on 4th July and we last dtd on 2nd JUly after which DH went away for his tour and would be back only tomorrow so guess we have missed that precious little eggie this month..!!! Thinking of trying Soy next cycle, what do you all think..?

Asiak and RP, we all will be blessed soon...I am keeping you both in my prayers...!!! Yes, I believe in Him and know that our time is coming..!!!

God bless and Good luck to everyone...!!!

 

[jogu07]

Mrs P...Wheres your ticker..????

 

[MrsPTTC]

Lol, I've just got rid of my old TTC ticker but I'm not putting a new one up just yet! AF not even due yet, though that is debatable as I usually only have a 12 day LP but last month it was extra long & think it was 14 or 15, can't remember. I believe I'm 12 dpo, but could be 11 or 13....

Pink glad everything is ok hun, are you finding out the sex? We will be team .

Jogu glad you're feeling better chick, yes DH really needs to tell her to but out!

x

 

[pink80]

I'm staying team xx

 

[Crumbs]

Hi ladies! I'm a little late, but I'm still here. Aisak, so sorry for your loss jogu07, I hope you've recovered after the visit and totally forgetting about MIL! Don't let her get to you, my MIL is the same and it's so hard to ignore, but it's the only way to keep sane!

MrsPTTC Congratulations!!! I am so happy for you! Wishing you a sticky, sticky bean and a smooth pregnancy!

To all my fave pregos, I wish you all a healthy baby and an easy delivery and recovery!

Last but not least, introducing my little baby. Born June 29th. Here she is at 8 days old.
https://img194.imageshack.us/img194/4429/attempt2.jpg

I'm halfway delirious and totally sleep deprived but oh-so happy! To those still waiting ... you're time will come!!! I'm so rooting for you.

 

[hakunamatata]

Crumbs she is beautiful! Positively angelic! Congratulations!

 

[jogu07]

Aww Crumbs...shes so cute..!!! Congrats on becoming a mommy..!!!

 

[MrsPTTC]

Crumbs!!!! I was thinking we hadn't heard from you for a while!! Congratulations!!!!!!!!!!! She is so adorable, just perfect! How was the labour? Tell all! What's her name & weight? And thank you, I knew we'd get there in the end!

Pink, nice one, team Do you have any names picked yet? We like Harry for a boy and I like Lily, Scarlet, Violet and Amelie for a girl - but we need to go through a baby book, plenty time ha!

Here are the latest HPT pics. Pic 1 is Friday's tests (10-11DPO) Pic 2 is this mornings test (12-13DPO.) I was super excited about the First Response on Friday as it's not a FRER, I used my last FRER on the Wed & got an evap! So to get a decent line on an ordinary First Response was good! Also the 2nd one is a Superdrug early test, same as I took on Wednesday and is definitely a lot darker! I am a POAS a holic I tell you I must have taken 15 tests

x

 

[Regalpeas]

Congrats Crumbs. She's a doll! So precious. So happy for you!

Thanks everyone for your supportive words.

@Jogu good to see you posting. I understand how you feel. It's so extremely hard. The pain and the reminders of the very thing that's already hurting you...It's all so unbearable at times.
I'm glad your dh supported you in this situation. Hang in there honey! Your time is coming. Hope you continue to feel better.

Also, have you tried Fertility Vits to aide in stabilizing your periods?

@Rosa- Last count was 8million the original was 2 million. Low count, low motility, and poor morphology. Abnormal sperm was the diagnosis. DH's fs wants him to get his count up to 10 million viable sperms for IUI and/or IVF washing. He was put on clomid which he didn't really take. Said he preferred vitamins. So here we are trying vits for 3 months or so then going back for another SA. Also,you're right. Definitely better than nothing, but still less that recommended. And that makes me think it won't help unless done as instructed.


Yay for team yellows!

 

[mrsmax]

Crumbs - she is BEAUTIFUL!!!! One of the most gorgeous babies I have seen. Congrats - well worth the wait!!!!! How was the birth?
MrsP and Pink - yay - we are team yellow too!!! I want to find out, but DH doesnt so I have given in as it means so much for him to keep it as a surprise. I thought we were going to be the only team yellows - so pleased you guys are too - we can discuss decorating and clothes buying stratagies!!!
Regal - glad DH's are making progress - how annoying he woudlnt take the clomid though, but hoepfuly the vitimins will do the trick and you guys can take the next step in 3 months time

 

[mrsmax]

Crumbs!!!! I was thinking we hadn't heard from you for a while!! Congratulations!!!!!!!!!!! She is so adorable, just perfect! How was the labour? Tell all! What's her name & weight? And thank you, I knew we'd get there in the end!

Pink, nice one, team Do you have any names picked yet? We like Harry for a boy and I like Lily, Scarlet, Violet and Amelie for a girl - but we need to go through a baby book, plenty time ha!

Here are the latest HPT pics. Pic 1 is Friday's tests (10-11DPO) Pic 2 is this mornings test (12-13DPO.) I was super excited about the First Response on Friday as it's not a FRER, I used my last FRER on the Wed & got an evap! So to get a decent line on an ordinary First Response was good! Also the 2nd one is a Superdrug early test, same as I took on Wednesday and is definitely a lot darker! I am a POAS a holic I tell you I must have taken 15 tests

x

I peed on tons of sticks - just so much fun to see a second line after years of seeing just the one!!!! Are you doing the conception timer ones? I loved seeing those go up to 3+

Oh - we have our names kinda picked, although lots of my initial choices were dismissed by DH so they are kind of compromises, but the girl's name more so than the boy's. We like Lucas for a boy (DH chose this but I am a closet One Tree Hill fan so happy with this choice!!) and Arabella for a girl. Havent even looked in a baby book though so could all change!!!!

You booked to see your GP yet?