Early 30's TTC #1

[rosababy]

oh, soleil. Your post made me cry...I am so so so incredibly sorry for your loss. I can't even imagine how it must feel. I am praying for you, too, friend. We are always here for you.

 

[pink80]

Soleil - I am so sorry for your loss there is nothing anyone can say right now to make the pain ease, but please know that you are not alone - pm me any time you need a chat or rant it's perfectly normal to cry at completely random times, I'm three months on and I still do - it's somethig that'll you never ever forgot and nor would you want to forgot your precious baby that was just too perfect for this world - hugs and kisses to you and your angel xxxxx

 

[mrsmax]

Soleil - I am so, so, so sorry for your loss. Your news made me cry - it is all so very unfair. As everyone has said, there is nothing we can say except that we support you and are here for you. Lean on your dh and anyone else you trust - you are grieving so dont expect too much of yourself - cry whenever you feel the need

 

[MrsPTTC]

Soleil so sorry for your loss, I can't even imagine how you must feel.. x

 

[Crumbs]

Soleil, I'm so sorry for your loss. Sweetie, take your time to mourn. You don't have to rush the healing process. I only hope the pain subsides with time

 

[rosababy]

Went to our consultation today. I feel so encouraged...because I had a weirdo hsg result (some of the dye went through the tubes, but some of it pooled at the top of the uterus and went through the blood vessels), we're doing a laparoscopy to see what's up. He suspects a little endometriosis. In which case, he'll laser it out while I'm under and we'll do an IUI after that. He said his goal is for us to be preggo by the end of the summer. Said WORST case scenario is my tubes are blocked or nonfunctional and we do ivf. However, I still have to convince dh that this is an option...he's not so much into it. Hopefully, we won't get to this point. But he doesn't think they are blocked.

 

[Crumbs]

That's excellent news, Rosa! Your doc sounds wonderful! Keep us updated

 

[MrsPTTC]

Yay, that's good news Rosa! x x

 

[MsJMouse]

Soliel - so sorry for your loss. There is nothing anyone can say to make this better, but do try to talk about it with DH, friends or us on BnB.

 

[MsJMouse]

Went to our consultation today. I feel so encouraged...because I had a weirdo hsg result (some of the dye went through the tubes, but some of it pooled at the top of the uterus and went through the blood vessels), we're doing a laparoscopy to see what's up. He suspects a little endometriosis. In which case, he'll laser it out while I'm under and we'll do an IUI after that. He said his goal is for us to be preggo by the end of the summer. Said WORST case scenario is my tubes are blocked or nonfunctional and we do ivf. However, I still have to convince dh that this is an option...he's not so much into it. Hopefully, we won't get to this point. But he doesn't think they are blocked.

Pregnant by the end of summer - that sounds like a great goal. Great results Rosa.

 

[hakunamatata]

Hugs to everyone, hope you're having a good day.

 

[mrsmax]

Rosa - that is great. Seems like you have a good, positive doctor!! You must be excited to be getting somewhere and end of summer is a fab goal!! When you doing the laps and IUI? HOw exciting!!

Off to my HSG tomorrow. I'm not so scared now I've read you r post - thanks for that.

 

[hopefulmama2b]

Good luck Rosa! I love the optimism of your doctor!

 

[rosababy]

Rosa - that is great. Seems like you have a good, positive doctor!! You must be excited to be getting somewhere and end of summer is a fab goal!! When you doing the laps and IUI? HOw exciting!!

Off to my HSG tomorrow. I'm not so scared now I've read you r post - thanks for that.

I'm glad my post made you less scared. Just take some pain meds and breathe. It only lasts 10 seconds and it was way less worse than I thought it was goiing to be. The fear of the unknown is always the worst. The hysteroscopy was way worse. My doc is very optomistic, and I love him!

The laparoscopy is next cycle, probably end up being the first thursday in July. My dh will be gone for army, but my mom is going to come out to be with me. I'm not sure the doc will do an IUI that cycle (especially since my dh will be in and out that week, not sure if he'll be able to get to the doc with his "sample") and we'll be on vacation during my fertile time in August, so we might have to wait until September for the IUI. Kind of annoying, but that's life, I guess. Either way, I'm excited that things are moving along FINALLY!

 

[Crumbs]

I just finished watching this and had to share. It's a British documentary on sperm and their battle towards conception. As in, if sperm were human size, what would their journey look like. It's really interesting, and pretty amusing too!

The Great Sperm Race: https://youtu.be/gAnMymnJiLM

I'm gonna get DH to watch it with me when he gets home from work.

 

[MrsPTTC]

I just finished watching this and had to share. It's a British documentary on sperm and their battle towards conception. As in, if sperm were human size, what would their journey look like. It's really interesting, and pretty amusing too!

The Great Sperm Race: https://youtu.be/gAnMymnJiLM

I'm gonna get DH to watch it with me when he gets home from work.

Its amazing isn't it Crumbs?! I saw it a couple of months ago & DH promised me he'd watch it but still hasnt to this day! x

 

[SMFirst]

I'm interested in watching the video - but at work we have no speakers, so I'll watch it with DH when I get home

 

[Dodima1999]

Hi all,
So I'm hoping my breakdown on Sunday was because I'm pregnant. My period is late (only by 2 days but I'm normally like clockwork) I have really sore boobs for last 2 weeks now and within the last week I've had light headed, dull back ache (more like when you've sat for too long) and am shattered....
I'm terrified to test in case it's the witch playing tricks on me.

Fingers crossed she stays away.

How's everyone else getting on?

 

[Crumbs]

Dodima1999, Fx for you, hun!

 

[MsJMouse]

Good Luck Dodima1999.

Good luck today with your HSG MrsMax.

Just checking in quickly before I go to work. Boss is on leave for the next five weeks so I am in charge which is great cause I hopefully won't have much time to think about things in the TWW.

Happy Friday everyone - TGIF as my brain is on overload from all the stuff I need to know with the boss going on leave.