Early scan today and so scared!

[LucyJ]

Hey,

I am 8 weeks pregnant and have an early scan for reassurance but sunday evening and on monday I have had some brown spotting with some cramping havnt had any today. I am so nervous and scared that it is going to be bad news.

I suffered a mmc march of this year we had an early scan at 6 weeks and saw a heartbeat then at our 12 week scan we were told the baby had died at 10 weeks.

This is my second pregnancy but will be our first baby I am so scared trying to stay positive and hoping that all will be alright.

 

[Round2]

Good luck Lucy....I know that blood and cramps are scary. Just try to stay positive. I'm sure everything will be okay.

 

[kafs78]

Hey babe - can i just say that, although i too have had a MMC at my 12wks scan....

I am now 19weeks preg and had brown blood aswell around the 7-8wks mark....so its not always bad news.

Remember brown blood is old blood....only when it goes RED should you be concerned.

 

[LucyJ]

Thank you for your support it was bad news had an internal scan and baby was measuing at 5 & half weeks so she did an internal scan and there was no heartbeat.

We are devastated I cant believe this has happened again

I cant breathe it hurts so much

 

[Round2]

I'm sooooo sorry Lucy.

 

[Chilli]

Lucy - I'm so sorry. I know the shock and disbelief you feel when it happens 2 times in a row. It's so unfair and not much I can say will make it any better, but I do understand

 

[kafs78]

my thoughts r with you....please keep chin u and keep trying....

 

[ornahayes]

I'm so sorry to hear. Big hugs to you both. xxxxx

 

[michelle30]

so sorry hun x

 

[hb1]

So sorry Lucy

hx

 

[Lucia]

Lucy, I am so very sorry. I came on just now to check how things went. As I've mentioned to you before, I had 2 mmc in a row this past year. I know how you are feeling. Please feel free to message me if you need to talk.

 

[~BumpyRide~]

So very sorry, Lucy. X

 

[Lucy1973]

So sorry Lucy, it's just horrible isn't it.

 

[LucyJ]

Thanks girls. I saw my dr today and she has referred us to the epu have an appointment at 9:15am they will do another scan and do proper measurements the scan I had wasnt at the epu just a reassurance scan (or at least was meant to be) so we have to go through the epu. There is a slim chance I mean we are talking miracle territory that we've got my dates wrong and thats why they couldnt find a heartbeat. I'm hoping and praying but realistic at the same time. Feel in abit of limbo at the moment. My dr feels confident that they will refer me for further testing as this will be my second mmc and I had a suspected early miscarriage in may of this year hopefully if it is bad news they will agree.

 

[Lucy1973]

Lucy I am hoping you get some miraculous news tomorrow. If not remember we are all here for you, feel free to message me if you need to talk.

 

[Peril]

I hope that tomorrow brings you good news

 

[stardust22]

I hope you have good news tomorrow. I am so sorry you are going through such an awful time. Life is so damn cruel at times.

 

[LucyJ]

Had my scan had to have an internal done again. The scan lady said that there is a sac with an embryo in it measuring about 3 - 4 mm she said the chances are I've suffered a missed miscarriage but they can't be 100% sure so I have to go back in a weeks time to have another scan to see if there's been any growth. I just feel numb and confused like we're in limbo. I am hoping and praying that we get a miracle that our little one will be ok but equally trying to stay realistic.

 

[Tulip]

Hey sweetheart, I'm glad they're getting you back in a week, else you would always be thinking 'what if?'. You're right to maintain some self-preservation but I'm hoping that your little one will surprise you next week xxx

 

[michelle30]

so sorry huni, ive been in the exact same position had to wait another week and go for another scan, i really hope u have got ur dates wrong and u get te news ur hoping for good luck xx