I've been going the high protein/no carb/low sugar route for the past 10-12 weeks. Trying to loose the extra 30lbs I'm carrying (13lbs down!) before TTC #1. I do portion control and drink at least 48oz of water a day...but still have my diet dr.pepper every day.
Check out Walden Farm products. They have zero calories, zero fat, zero everything but a little sodium. They aren't quite the same as "normal" stuff, but totally worth it. I could right a post just on the Walden Farm products I use.
Protein shake with soy milk for breakfast during the week. 2 eggs scrambled or hard boiled on the weekends.
Salads are a no brainer, add meat and/or hard boiled eggs to get your protein. I substitute spaghetti squash for regular, brown hamburger or meatballs, and find a spaghetti sauce that is lowest in sugar.
Mashed cauliflower (season like you would regular mashed potatoes...the taste isn't the same but still good and texture is really similar) with chicken breast or pork chop.
Tuna with a small amount of mayo (or get Walden Farm) with onion and celery. Skip the bread and eat it with a fork.
I think some people are more sensitive to carbs and sugar and I've found I am one of them. I've tried counting calories with very little success. I don't count a thing with this. Just try to pump as much protein in me as possible, it really does help keep you full. This is not the easiest route, I'll be honest. Just tonight I was about in tears trying to figure out what the heck to eat!
But it's nice to see the scale move. And I don't have that afternoon crash like I used too. The way I'm eating is based on a program called Ideal Protein. I didn't want to spend the money to sign up plus buy their food, so I'm going what I call the Walmart route. My MIL did the actual program and did really good if you've got the extra cash.
I'm not looking forward to eating this way once fall/winter hit. But I'll keep trudging along until the last of the weight is off. I do allow myself one splurge meal a week so I don't go completely off my rocker
for carbs/sweets. So once I reach my goal weight I'll introduce more carbs/sweets and find a balance.