MissingBubs
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Ok, so after a mc a mmc and an ep over the last 2 years I find myself with 1 tube (which tests show may have adhesions) and although I've not seen my consultant to know the full prognosis we've been researching our options and can see that IVF could be a very probable necessity.
My DH has a daughter from a previous relationship and so we will not be eligable for NHS IVF, private costs are soooooo steep. We have been looking into egg donation so that the cost for our IVF will be dramatically reduced.
I love the thought of helping another couple (as I hope someone would help us in that situation), but the thought of us being unsuccessful in our attempts when somebody could be very successful with my egg donation really worries me. As does the thought of a knock at the door in 18 years.
Does annyone have any advice or experience?
I just feel so unsure and uneducated in these areas. I thought come off the pill and bobs your uncle.
My DH has a daughter from a previous relationship and so we will not be eligable for NHS IVF, private costs are soooooo steep. We have been looking into egg donation so that the cost for our IVF will be dramatically reduced.
I love the thought of helping another couple (as I hope someone would help us in that situation), but the thought of us being unsuccessful in our attempts when somebody could be very successful with my egg donation really worries me. As does the thought of a knock at the door in 18 years.
Does annyone have any advice or experience?
I just feel so unsure and uneducated in these areas. I thought come off the pill and bobs your uncle.