hello all.
Im driving myself insane this week. And need someone to make sense of everything thats spinning in my head. Im 8dpo.we decided to try after 2 cycles after d&c (mmc in may, mc in jan) Im in a real mess because all my instincts are saying im pregnant again, I sensed it a few days ago- which I know sounds insane because before implantation there are no symptoms. Ive been here twice before- in both pregnancies I just knew.There are some symptoms today. I dont know how to feel or what to do. I want a baby more than ANYTHING. But feel I cant celebrate if get a positive because it means Ive got something to lose again. Even the mere thought of losing a third breaks my heart. Part of me thinks I shouldnt do any tests and almost just carry on like everythings normal and TRY to get to 10 weeks, then go to the doctor and have the 11/12 week scan. I learnt my lesson last time that early scans mean diddley squat after being given hope of a heartbeat then have it taken away from me a week later. If I am pregnant the fear of mmc is so haunting.
anyway, I could just be imagining and wishing myself to feel pregnant, maybe im not. All I know is Im stuck in a baby bubble and cant think about anything else. Im just scared,emotional, and worried. Truth is it's probably FLAMING PMT!!!! we're so absolutey desperate for a healthy pregnancy. I guess its out of my hands now.sorry for going on and on I just dont know what to do with myself
xxx
Im driving myself insane this week. And need someone to make sense of everything thats spinning in my head. Im 8dpo.we decided to try after 2 cycles after d&c (mmc in may, mc in jan) Im in a real mess because all my instincts are saying im pregnant again, I sensed it a few days ago- which I know sounds insane because before implantation there are no symptoms. Ive been here twice before- in both pregnancies I just knew.There are some symptoms today. I dont know how to feel or what to do. I want a baby more than ANYTHING. But feel I cant celebrate if get a positive because it means Ive got something to lose again. Even the mere thought of losing a third breaks my heart. Part of me thinks I shouldnt do any tests and almost just carry on like everythings normal and TRY to get to 10 weeks, then go to the doctor and have the 11/12 week scan. I learnt my lesson last time that early scans mean diddley squat after being given hope of a heartbeat then have it taken away from me a week later. If I am pregnant the fear of mmc is so haunting.
anyway, I could just be imagining and wishing myself to feel pregnant, maybe im not. All I know is Im stuck in a baby bubble and cant think about anything else. Im just scared,emotional, and worried. Truth is it's probably FLAMING PMT!!!! we're so absolutey desperate for a healthy pregnancy. I guess its out of my hands now.sorry for going on and on I just dont know what to do with myself
xxx