Everyone around me is pregnant ....

[JasmineFrame]

I feel like everyone around me is getting pregnant it feels so unfair, we have decided to TTC before i get my AF, but i feel so defeated right now. People that i know that cant even afford another child are pregnant, i feel green with envy right now and i feel like my rainbow baby will never happen.

 

[loved2830]

Hi JasmineFrame...sorry for your loss. I can totally relate...

I have family members including my little brother who is having his first child unplanned and here I am the older sister who planned my baby and MC.

I am not sure how far out you are from you MC but I encourage you to stay strong. Its tough and sometimes I still cry and pout but all will work out. If you feel like venting please feel free to vent to me via private message. It would be nice to hear and share our feelings in such a difficult time.

 

[LoraLoo]

It certainly feels like everyone is oregnant here too! Big bumps everywhere I look! X

 

[JasmineFrame]

Glad im not the only one feeling this way, i honestly dont even know if im ovulating or can even get pregnant right now but everything inside me wants another baby

 

[ILoveme29]

I know exactly how you feel and sorry for your loss. I currently work with two other woman who are preggers I have to see them every day and even worse the one who is having twins was due the week after me it was so sad that mine ended but watch her continue to go through. but Im okay Im leaving everything to God and praying for my BFP next month

 

[JasmineFrame]

Yea im hopeful that we will get pregnant again, last week i was totally ok with my MC and this week im on a down slope i guess.

 

[fairycat]

I feel you. Everywhere I go I see pregnant ladies.

I was just having a discussion about this with the husband the other day. We see all these pregnant people and just assume they got pregnant easily. While some have, maybe others have quite the trial behind it that nobody even knows about. One of the girls at work came back after leaving for about a year and she's pregnant. I've been using this time to ask questions, etc and gain as much info as I need as I have no baby yet. Perception is everything, try to shift it so you're not so hard on yourself

 

[Justme43]

Yea im hopeful that we will get pregnant again, last week i was totally ok with my MC and this week im on a down slope i guess.

I am so sorry for your loss. It gets like that sometimes. One minute we have a handle on things and the next it is too much to handle.

Just hold on and try to think positive thoughts. Your, our time will come and we will have out rainbow babies.

 

[ILoveme29]

Its even harder to attend a baby shower I missed 2 so far. im sorry but I think I will break down if I was to go so im avoiding until I feel ready

 

[Justme43]

Its even harder to attend a baby shower I missed 2 so far. im sorry but I think I will break down if I was to go so im avoiding until I feel ready

Your feelings are completely understandable. Take your time and you will know when you are ready.

Remember, its' no rush. We've suffered a terrible ordeal and it takes time to heal.

Wishing you the best.

 

[ILoveme29]

Its even harder to attend a baby shower I missed 2 so far. im sorry but I think I will break down if I was to go so im avoiding until I feel ready

Your feelings are completely understandable. Take your time and you will know when you are ready.

Remember, its' no rush. We've suffered a terrible ordeal and it takes time to heal.

Wishing you the best.

thank you so much for your kind words

 

[Vicky_92]

I'm so sorry for your loss. I feel the same, bumps everywhere!

 

[lilmisscaviar]

Hun, I know exactly how you feel. I couldn't even go to the store for the first month after my mmc. I blocked all the pregnant people I was friends with on Facebook. I'm sorry but I just couldn't see the bumps. My first post m/c period made the depression even worse. After having three losses, I wonder if I'll ever have another healthy pregnancy again. I feel this way even with two kids already. I've always wanted a big family and when I go to the mall and see a big family with six kids or something it just makes my heart melt.

 

[Spudtastic]

I feel like everyone around me is getting pregnant it feels so unfair, we have decided to TTC before i get my AF, but i feel so defeated right now. People that i know that cant even afford another child are pregnant, i feel green with envy right now and i feel like my rainbow baby will never happen.

Jasmine - i just want to say Big Hugs and Sorry for your Loss.

I wrote this exact same post at the start of this year. I hid away fromplay parks, and my daughters activities because so many people had been pregnant the same time as me and I just didn't want to see them or their bumps. You are grieving and it's hard. Even though I'm pregnant now I see the little babies who were due around the same time as I was with my mmc and I find it hard to look at them.

It will get better. x x x

 

[Spudtastic]

I just realised - I'm sorry my ticker is there to see. I can't delete my post

 

[hereishoping]

Feeling same pain here. Girl I sit with at work is due with 5 days of what would have been my due date. So painful setting her go through all the experiences I should be. My best friend also miscarried at same time as me and we are both TTC again so really worried about the upset if one of us gets a bfp and the other doesn't

 

[bubbles82]

I know what you mean, just had my second loss confirmed today, and it feels so much harder than the first time round, maybe because I didn't think I would be unlucky enough to go through it again once I got my rainbow baby after my first loss, but also because I didn't know anyone else pregnant same time as me with the first loss. This time two of my best friends are due the same time I should've been, I know loads of colleagues and friends who are pregnant now, and there seems to be new announcements and scan pics every time I look on Facebook. I try remind myself some of these girls might've had a tough journey too that I don't know about. It would be easier to deal with if I just knew my rainbow was definitely coming and when!

 

[ILoveme29]

I know what you mean, just had my second loss confirmed today, and it feels so much harder than the first time round, maybe because I didn't think I would be unlucky enough to go through it again once I got my rainbow baby after my first loss, but also because I didn't know anyone else pregnant same time as me with the first loss. This time two of my best friends are due the same time I should've been, I know loads of colleagues and friends who are pregnant now, and there seems to be new announcements and scan pics every time I look on Facebook. I try remind myself some of these girls might've had a tough journey too that I don't know about. It would be easier to deal with if I just knew my rainbow was definitely coming and when!

I'm sorry you have to go through a MC again I couldn't imagine. Be strong and don't give up and hope your rainbow comes soon

 

[Justme43]

Top of the morning ladies,

I just wanted to check in to see how everyone is doing. Today marks week 3 after my D&C and I am not sure why that feels significant to me but it does.

In any event, it's Friday and I am looking forward to a weekend away from work where I can relax.

Have a wonderful day ladies and may your heart feel a bit lighter today.