amygwen
Mom to Kenny & Gwendoline
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OH and I made the decision to try to adopt a dog - we got him (Cujo) through a program where you can foster them first to make sure they are a right fit for your family and then you can adopt if you want to. So we've been fostering him now for over two weeks and Kenneth & I really love him.
Anyways, the dog is so sweet, he's 5 months old and he's 100% housebroken, no accidents except here and there when he gets scared or over excited. I've really fallen in love with him and so has Kenneth, they play all the time.
OH really really doesn't like the dog at all. OH has tried to like him but the dog is just really scared of him for some reason so when OH tries to cuddle or play with him, he pees all over the place, gets really scared and hides. I've tried explaining to OH he's clearly scared and might've been abused by someone who looks similar to him which is why he gets so scared.
Also - I've tried getting OH to feed him, which he does. But Cujo will run away and not eat the food if OH gives it to him and I've tried getting OH to take him out on walks, but every time he goes towards him with the leash he pees all over the place.
Now OH has told me he really hates the dog and wishes we never got it. I'm really really upset because he's so nice and happy with Kenneth and I but not with OH. We are still fostering him so do have the option to take him back to the organization and they will adopt him out to someone else, but I feel like he's a good fit for us, but I don't want the dog to be scared of living with us because of OH. What should I do?
Thanks girls.