LynAnne
Mum to 2 Boys
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We have two sons. DS1 will be 2 next month and our youngest is almost 10 weeks old and we have decided our family is complete. DH is 110% done whereas I would probably have one more if he was up for it. I know he won't change his mind though and I'm surprisingly fine with it. After several losses we didn't even know if we would ever have one level alone be blessed with our two beautiful boys.
Logistically, practically and financially it just makes sense for us to stop at two. That isn't even factoring in the emotional or physical strain pregnancy puts on us both. Even with having a very easy pregnancy in the grand scheme of things with DS2 I found it absolutely exhausting with another child to take care of. So yeah, we are both happy to say we will be staying a family of four.
DH has said he's happy to get a vasectomy in a couple of years time (we are not yet 30 and we've heard that sometimes it's hard to get doctors to agree to a vasectomy before you're 30) but until then I'm looking for other contraception. I don't want to add hormones to my body and I don't want anything that will make my period heavier or more painful as it's never exactly been light or easy in the past! Before kids we just used condoms and will possibly just go back to that but I'm curious to hear other people's experiences with different contraception.
Also, has anyone else heard "oh, yoy never know" or "maybe one more" a million times from friends and family when they say they are done? Everyone seems to have an opinion on my family size! We haven't said about DH probably getting a vasectomy in the future (it's no one's business).
Logistically, practically and financially it just makes sense for us to stop at two. That isn't even factoring in the emotional or physical strain pregnancy puts on us both. Even with having a very easy pregnancy in the grand scheme of things with DS2 I found it absolutely exhausting with another child to take care of. So yeah, we are both happy to say we will be staying a family of four.
DH has said he's happy to get a vasectomy in a couple of years time (we are not yet 30 and we've heard that sometimes it's hard to get doctors to agree to a vasectomy before you're 30) but until then I'm looking for other contraception. I don't want to add hormones to my body and I don't want anything that will make my period heavier or more painful as it's never exactly been light or easy in the past! Before kids we just used condoms and will possibly just go back to that but I'm curious to hear other people's experiences with different contraception.
Also, has anyone else heard "oh, yoy never know" or "maybe one more" a million times from friends and family when they say they are done? Everyone seems to have an opinion on my family size! We haven't said about DH probably getting a vasectomy in the future (it's no one's business).