fathers day testers? (20th June)

[babyignoramus]

thanks. :smile:

Hopefully it will be lucky for me. I got my BFP with my son on fathers day 2008!

 

[lily28]

That would be so wonderful! I really hope you get your BFP, have you thought how to announce to your OH?

 

[babyignoramus]

Don't know really - would be lovely to put the HPK in his father's day card, although knowing my OH he would just be grossed out by the fact that I'd put something covered in pee in there!!

Maybe I'll test on Saturday evening and get a photo of it to print off....

 

[Linzi]

Hi ladies

Tested again this morning BFN

No symptoms so far today either.

Testing again friday if I can hold myself back tomorrow

x

 

[lily28]

Don't know really - would be lovely to put the HPK in his father's day card, although knowing my OH he would just be grossed out by the fact that I'd put something covered in pee in there!!

Maybe I'll test on Saturday evening and get a photo of it to print off....

Lol I would be a little grossed out myself tbh... LOLz Just kidding. In my case I'd draw a cute positive HPK with "congratulations Daddy!" or something.

 

[lily28]

Hi ladies

Tested again this morning BFN

No symptoms so far today either.

Testing again friday if I can hold myself back tomorrow

x

Early tester! Oooh you are naughty! I can't test even if I wanted to. I always go to the pharmacy for the kit on the day I want to test and the pharmacist is always *wink*

 

[lily28]

Any symptoms today? I'm gassy sorry tmi!

Oooh and another question, I'm 7DPO and have super watery CM what does that mean???

 

[lucyandlilly]

eeeeeek soo exciting!! fathers day is on a sunday though so i will test on mon 21st ( my logic is) i dont want to go buy a test this week as am pretty sure af will show up so if still no af will go get one monday and test! will be 31 days since last af then so hopfully will get a definate test result? its doing my head in already! lol no symptoms get but just looked back at my preg diary with daughter and didnt have any symptonms early on with her either so fingers crossed! got quite a lot of cramping although this could just be af coming boo! oh and my face has broken out in spots evrywhere! not kool ! lol anyway babydust to all xxx

 

[lily28]

Imho better later than sooner, I don't cheat because I was testing too early last time I ttc and I was super sad.

 

[Linzi]

Im bad at cheating I keep saying I wont but I always do.

Sunday will be the next time I promise, AF due on Saturday.

Not feeling at all positive today. Dunno how much of it is to do with ebing stressed out at work. Just not sure this is the time its going to happen.

Its a pretty long story but will feel better getting it out if you dont mind

My son was born June 08, I didnt get my first period after he was born til Jule 09 when he was 1 yr 4 days old. During that time I was diagnosed with PCOS. We decided when I got AF we would start trying.

She arrived and we started trying for 5 months until OH changed his mind after a convo with his mother

Since then, Ive been tracking my cycles, and (irresponsible as it is) we've been hitting the right time most months (apart from months we've abstained) and I just can't seem to fall on. I dont know if Im def ovulating, my cycles vary between 31-36 days, and its just not happening.

I know it isnt the right time and while I know that it worrys me that we've not really used protyection since my son was born & its still not happening. Just dont understand? I dont mind not havign a baby right now I just want to know that when we do decide to start TTC again that I CAN have one. I mean I know in my head I can. But if its going to take 2 yrs + Id rather know iykwim.

Needless to say Im feeling a tad negative now. We've done no different this cycle as to what we do any other so I dont see why it would all of a sudden happen now. Im going back on BC when AF arrives coz I hate keep putting myself through this.

Sorry for the rant havign a really bad day x

 

[lily28]

So sorry you are going through this Linzi

How awful of your MIL... I feel for you, my MIL is telling DH to avoid having kids if he can. I hate her. I mean he already is 44 when is he going to let him do what he likes???

 

[Linzi]

theyre annoying arent they!! And the WORST thing is that men always seem tot ake what their mothers say as gospel Ill be exactly the same though when Seth gets to that age and wants a baby I keep saying now he's never leaving me! I will be the MIL from hell!

She didnt tell him as such but she made a few little comments that put seeds of doubt in his mind, and the more he thought the bigger they got & we stopped trying.

So he doesnt think its her fault but I do

We arent in the financial position for a baby as we are now but Im sure if I got another job, went part time or something we'd manage fine he just doesn't seem to see it?

Its not that bad a situation but everthing seems 10 times worse when you're stressed doesnt it

xxx

 

[lily28]

ha! Tell me about it... I'm sure I'll be the worse MIL...DH will also be FIL from hell.

My MIL always tells him that "what if you lose your job, what if she cheats on you, what if she stops caring about you, it's a huge responsibility, you are going to lose your freedom" etc always feeding him doubt. What makes me so angry is that he is still not over these issues, after 7 years of stable happy marriage. And we have a very luxurious lifestyle so far. We can afford a baby (hell we can afford a bunch of babies) but the doubt is always in his mind.

I'm mad as hell sometimes, but I hope he'll get over his fears soon.

 

[Linzi]

my hubby is exactly the same hun I think its a man thing

xxx

 

[kelly1979]

hi there, i would like to test on fathers day but i would only be 8dpo and a little early.... linzi, i noticed you are from leeds, i am from pontefract so am not too far from you. west yorkshire luck going out to you x

 

[Linzi]

Thanks hun, I have a friend in Pontefract, not far!!

How are we all feeling today?

Im still a bit dizzy today but suffering badly with hayfever. Not sure if its ok to take antihystamines. Laid off the alcohol this week as well just incase.

Apart from that all Ive had is pinching right in the bottom of my pelvis, its quite painful, not so bad its unbearable but it makes me sit up & take notice

Hope you're all ok today fellow symptom spotters!!

xxx

 

[lily28]

good morning everyone! No symptoms at all today except my high temp... Linzi sounds like implantation good luck hun!

 

[lucyandlilly]

heloo everyone! ive got bad hayever too but unsure wether to take antihistimines or not. think ill try n bare it until 20th . ahhrgh 3 days im really tempted to go get a test today and do a sneaky one! 20th would be when af is due . had cramping very light all day yesterday nothing today. quick question.. what is the usual position of ur cv before period? cuz mine is very high up like i cant even feel it hardly . also got veyr bad spots on my chin n face which i never normally get . boobs are normal . i dont want to go get test then come on next day ahhhrgh hmm what do u guys think? things r seeming to smell stronger . last night hubby put pepper on his dinner and the smell of it nearly made me chuck !! maybe im imagining it. ho hum what to do what to do.... hope all are well ! xx

 

[Linzi]

Id leave the test hun for a couple of days (should take my own advice ) my cervix is high too, I cant feel it at all & usually can so think it's a good sign! Hopefully someone can give you a proper answer though

Hayfever medication is not safe during pregnancy so its up to you really. There is something you can buy to help - its like a gel you put around your nostrils & stops the pollen entering through your nose. Cant remember the name but if you ask your pharmasist, thats safe for use in pregnancy I swore by it when I was pregnant with my son

Good luck hun!!

I thought the pain might have been implantation but had very similar on Tuesday too? Twins!!!! my hubby would have a heart attack

xxx

 

[lily28]

I normally don't suggest to cheat and have an early test, but do you have one handy right now? The pepper story makes me laugh!!! Good luck!