allforthegirl
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QOTD: my son found a very large green catipiller with this crazy spike on its butt. He went to pick it up and he screamed like a girl cause "it was going to spike me" 

Thanks allforthegirl, things are better and better today, the bright spotting only lasted that one time. I'm gonna call right away just to see what the midwife thinks. Hope I can squeeze a scan out of em! Hope all your appts and monitoring is/ will be all going well!
Thanks allforthegirl, things are better and better today, the bright spotting only lasted that one time. I'm gonna call right away just to see what the midwife thinks. Hope I can squeeze a scan out of em! Hope all your appts and monitoring is/ will be all going well!
BnB needs a "like" button! I've seen so many of your posts that I want to acknowledge but all we can do is reply. Boo.
Anyway, the caterpillar post made that come to mind
I had my blood test this AM to check for genetic defects. Turns out they do the "verifi" test rather than the "Maternit21" test. They can check for sex chromosome anomalies, as well, so I guess the office prefers it. Turnaround time is apparently shorter, too. Maybe only a week?
I was super excited about taking it but now I find myself feeling nervous. What if something's really wrong? I guess I'd rather know and it's out of my hands but now it's on my mind. If we found out the baby has Down Syndrome, we wouldn't terminate the pregnancy but it would be very very tough to deal with. At least knowing might prepare us in some small way.
However, if it were Trisomy 13 or 18, I think we'd probably terminate. There's no chance of any quality of life with that. It makes me so sad to think about, so I guess I'll try not to!
Anyway, hope everyone is having a great day (including staying cool)![]()