FEBRUARY HEARTS Due in February 2015 , open group all welcome!

[Megamegan]

I've been researching natural childbirth. I want to go into it with an open mind but I'd like to read some books in the meantime that might help with labor. I know it's a LONG way away still, but I am interested in this stuff and I like to read. Does anyone have some suggestions for good natural childbirth books? I know some of you have mentioned it before...

Thanks

Also, today I told a friend at work that I am pregnant, and he said "Isn't it too early to be telling people?" Um hello... that's MY decision. How can someone say that? Just because some women choose to wait until after the first trimester (which I totally respect), doesn't make it a universal rule. I am a very open person and I guarantee if I have a miscarriage, I'll be out of work for a few days at least (further along they give you the full 6 weeks maternity leave even if it's a miscarriage) and everyone will know anyway. So maybe I'm just in a bad mood today but I thought it was insensitive to say. Like, he is implying that people in early pregnancy usually lose their babies. The majority of pregnant women stay pregnant, and I'm clinging to my "good feeling", so what's the problem with that? Ugh. Such lack of respect.

Rant complete

 

[confuzion]

I recommend Ina May's guide to childbirth. Lots of info. Lots of birth stories. I loved it!

And that is pretty rude and insensitive of your co-worker. The normal thing to say is 'congratulations'. WTH.

 

[bridgetboo62]

yeah that is rude of him to say

 

[jmandrews]

Agree with everyone above. So rude! DH and told early with DD and even the one we had a loss with. I was thankful to have amazing support. They helped me get through it. We are telling everyone who knew about the MC about this baby as well. People just should to speak.

 

[elly460]

Can I join!? I am due Feb 9th 7w2d today! 8 week scan in 5 days, wish us luck!

 

[savvysaver]

My quick update! I had my first ultrasound today and I was super surprised when the tech told me I was having twins! My wish came true! Hubby almost passed out and I asked the tech about a dozen times if there was really two. Baby A measured 7w0d with a heartbeat of 138 and Baby B measured 7w1d with a heartbeat of 130. She told me they both looked good.

 

[bridgetboo62]

wow congratulations i am sooooo jealous
wish i was having twins!

 

[jmandrews]

My quick update! I had my first ultrasound today and I was super surprised when the tech told me I was having twins! My wish came true! Hubby almost passed out and I asked the tech about a dozen times if there was really two. Baby A measured 7w0d with a heartbeat of 138 and Baby B measured 7w1d with a heartbeat of 130. She told me they both looked good.

Yay yay yay!!!! So excited! So glad we have twins in the group! Congrats! Wonderf news! Glad both babies are doing well.
Just wondering are you twin natural or conceived with fertility help? Did you have a feeling there were twins?

 

[jmandrews]

Can I join!? I am due Feb 9th 7w2d today! 8 week scan in 5 days, wish us luck!

Congrats Elly! Can't wait to hear about your scan

 

[Megamegan]

Congrats and welcome, Elly!

Savvysaver YAY I'm so happy for you!! Twins!! SO exciting I'm sure it was a total shock but I'm glad you wanted twins and got them.

 

[swanxxsong]

Congrats savvy!!! That's awesome!!

I also recommend Ina Mays childbirth book. It's amazing.

 

[Megamegan]

Thanks ladies I'll definitely look into her book!

 

[crysshae]

Congratulations Savvy! Twins are such a blessing!

Congratulations and welcome Elly!

 

[maisie78]

Laura try not to worry too much hun (easier said than done I know). Baby could have implanted a bit later and 5-6 really isn't far off where you think you should be xx

Ttc great news about your husband's Kell result. What does this mean for you now? Will you have to have injections like someone with rhesus blood?

Savvy yay for the first twins on the group Congratulations!

 

[bridgetboo62]

only six more days until wormy is considered an actual fetus!

 

[ttc126]

Thanks maisie

There are no injections for kell unfortunately because it's so rare. They will monitor me, but hopefully everything will be just fine

 

[RaspberryK]

Ttc that's good news

Savvy whoop whoop double congratulations.

Now you can post in the twins and multiple board

Xx

 

[MellyH]

Savvy - HOORAAAAAAY!!!! Your wish came true! That's wonderful news.

Captain - I love your DH's response, what a sweetheart.

Surprise Bub - I know how you feel. Every day that my period doesn't arrive I'm like "Huh, guess I'm still pregnant!" because that's the only way I'd know. My boobs are still tender, and I'm having one or two times a day when I feel a bit dodgy if I haven't eaten, but they're both fleeting, almost-not-there symptoms. I am also dealing with the US health system after moving here from overseas (Australia), although I did move 6 years ago so I have quite a bit of experience at this point, so let me know if you have any questions!!

As for the other Bumpers talking about moodiness - seriously! A few times in the last couple of days I've had to stop myself on the edge of tears about to rip my husband a new one to take a few breaths and say something like "I'm really hormonal right now, it's not your fault, but I'm going to need a moment."

 

[xxshellsxx]

i'm secretly hoping for Twins this is my only shot at being a mummy and with clomid and a strong maternal twin line... i'm hoping there is more than one. If there is only one in there i'll be just as happy

I secretly hope for twins too...though I know my hubby would freak out! I have always wanted twins, but I will be super happy for one healthy, sticky bean.

I have my first ultrasound in two hours...would they be able to tell if it is twins?

Your wish came true then fantastic news!!


My spotting has stopped again.... i'm a complete wreck and over anxious about this baby, i know i am, i don't think i will relax until i see a baby on the screen with a heartbeat... week on monday seems soooo far away!!

 

[laurac1988]

Ladies I'm taking some time out from this group until I know whether this baby is ok. See you all in two weeks hopefully x