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Ok so call me moody but for the oast 10 weeks I have been paranoid and checking the tissue everytime I wipe to check im not spotting and now my stupid dh bought pink toilet paper im so mad at him
 
Ok so call me moody but for the oast 10 weeks I have been paranoid and checking the tissue everytime I wipe to check im not spotting and now my stupid dh bought pink toilet paper im so mad at him

Fair enough! Kick his ass and blame the hormones ;)
 
Aw Nicole so scary. Hope you and baby are ok. Thinking of you.
 
Oh Nicole I'm sorry, I hope you're ok <3

2nd time- I couldn't help but laugh, probably because I can relate! Omg. See, the problem with my DH is that if I mention blood, the percentage chance of MC, preparing myself before an ultrasound, or whatever- he gets SO upset. I even said "Well I hope everything is ok in there!" and he goes "Why would you say that? What makes you think it's not ok? that's bad juju!!!" lol. I mean I just want to share my feelings with my husband, geez. But that's not the point. Go buy yourself some white TP and let hubby use the pink, lol.

The "pregnant women are smug" video is hilarious!!! Hahahaha. It's pretty accurate too! It makes me feel better about how I feel about gender. If I'm honest, I do want a girl, and if it's a boy I'm gonna have to adjust 27 years of imagining my first baby as a girl (same with DH, he's always imagined a girl). But I WILL adjust if it's a boy and I will still love him. And it's so true- health is unrelated to gender, so why do we always say "as long as it's healthy"? haha. Duh, everyone wants a healthy baby.
 
Lol loving this convo about gender. Anyone have any feelings?
I was feeling boy but now I'm feeling girl. Haha I don't know! 9 more weeks until I officially know. :)

Anyone else extremely constipated? I am so uncomfortable! I finally bough MiraLax to see if it will help. Anyone else have any advice? I didn't have this problem with DD.
 
That is so true. I think we can take wanting a healthy baby as a given. I confess to wanting another girl. I won't be disappointed with a boy but a girl would be lovely for Gabriella. I have dreams of them being really good friends and of this baby helping Gabriella with her hair and makeup and them going shopping for clothes. It's really important for me that Gabriella gets to be a 'normal' girl despite her sight loss. Although my early years nurse said the other day 'don't worry if it's a boy, he may turn out to be gay...best of both worlds!' lol :)

On the subject of gender though, I got a call last night from the geneticist to say that despite almost bleeding me dry last week the gender test came back inconclusive. Not even a maybe but we need to double check but a flat out we don't know. So I have been in again today for more blood to be taken and sent off. Now I have another week's wait to find out :( Getting impatient now!
 
Have you tried Colace/a stool softener? That's more gentle and laxatives are, I'm pretty sure, very dangerous in pregnancy... maybe MiraLax is different, I dunno, definitely check with your doc. But Colace is totally safe. Also try drinking a fiber drink. That should help in the long run.
 
Yeah try something like fibrogel or lactulose. Both are pretty vile but they do work. I had lactulose after my section and it worked for me x
 
I'm also experiencing cramping and brown spotting, and my pregnancy symptoms have gone. No nausea or fatigue... :( I don't know whether the spotting is due to the subchorionic hematoma or not, but I'm paranoid about a missed miscarriage.

I'll call my midwife in a few hours.
 
:hugs: to you Nicole. I hope you have answers soon love!

2nd time: ah that would throw me for a loop too! I am always checking for blood and spotting. That would drive me crazy!

I don't really have a feeling yet. But with Aria, we picked a girls name so easily and never really decided on a boys name. This time we are sold on a boys name and are stuck on deciding a girls name. So I can't help but wonder if this is meant to be LOL. Granted I have a ton of time to think of a name. Lol!
 
Oh Nicole, the worst news. :( I'm so sorry. Thank you for being part of the thread, let us know if you need anything or if we can do anything.

Feronia, hopefully it's not the worst case scenario. :hugs:

Yep, very constipated here. Farting up a STORM. I have some fibre gummies that I'm chewing on twice a day, and as of yesterday also starting taking Colace/stool softener. This is so glamourous, guys! :lol:
 
So sorry to hear, Nicole! Hope things turn out Ok for you, Feronia!
 
Very sorry Nicole :(

Feronia don't worry, it's probably nothing serious! I hope your midwife can give you a little peace of mind.

My symptoms come and go each day, and so far I haven't been nearly as tired as my sister warned me I would be, but I am sleepy. It just kinda feels like I didn't drink my morning coffee and I'm slightly drowsy all day. It's kinda pissing me off that I can't predict if I'll be sick one day or the next, because I have freelance work I could do, but it's hard to schedule in advance if I don't know how I'll feel. So annoying. Today I'm doing it and I feel like crap, but I am just gonna suck it up.
 

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