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[Feronia]

Thank you for this. It has actually made me feel better. For my age I would be given a 1:350 chance so that must mean that my nt measurement, hcg and papp-a results have lowered my chances to 1:435. Like I said I just got a bit spooked wondering if those results perhaps point to other issues. I didn't have the test with dd so have nothing to compare it to.

That's really reassuring that they lowered your odds based on what they found! Being over 35 automatically makes them calculate your odds as 1:350? That seems a bit ridiculous to me. Nonetheless, I bet it's stressful, especially if you've been that 1 in the past... I really think everything is fine with your little guy though!

I'm skipping the NT scan to avoid the stress.

 

[RaspberryK]

I've been that one in thousands statistic too so I know what you mean by it not being that reassuring xx

 

[SurpriseBub]

This might help?

https://www.wolfson.qmul.ac.uk/serv...tests/calculating-the-risk-of-down-s-syndrome

xx

Thank you for this. It has actually made me feel better. For my age I would be given a 1:350 chance so that must mean that my nt measurement, hcg and papp-a results have lowered my chances to 1:435. Like I said I just got a bit spooked wondering if those results perhaps point to other issues. I didn't have the test with dd so have nothing to compare it to.

Sorry that the test has caused more stress! Like everyone has said, the number looks good when you analyze it if you wanted reassurance, could you ask for the harmony or maternit21? Maybe the two of those tests looked at together would help ease your mind?

 

[MrsTM1]

I refused the NT test last pregnancy, but this pregnancy the midwife told me that I'd get 20 extra minutes seeing baby if I agreed to it, so I said sure. Isn't going to change how much we love little one, plus they need to draw blood anyway because the poor midwife couldn't get any at my booking appointment. I don't care about the results, I'm just happy to get the extra 20 minutes!

 

[xxshellsxx]

Maisie, or anyone in the UK who has had it done, how long did it take to get the NT results through the post? I had mine on thursday, Sonographer told me the risk goes up from age 37 (i'm 36) and i know my numbers are below the 3.5mm high risk (2mm & 2.1mm). Had bloods taken straight after the scan - what is the usual time scale? Also if i hear from my midwife before i get the letter i know it's high risk, if it's low i will get the results before she will x

 

[MellyH]

I didn't original want the prenatal screening/NT scan because of a all the reasons stated above, but I want to see the twins again so I can reassure myself they're both okay. And my husband missed the first scan and wanted to see them himself. So we changed our minds! I don't think I want to know the actual numbers!

 

[RaspberryK]

Maisie, or anyone in the UK who has had it done, how long did it take to get the NT results through the post? I had mine on thursday, Sonographer told me the risk goes up from age 37 (i'm 36) and i know my numbers are below the 3.5mm high risk (2mm & 2.1mm). Had bloods taken straight after the scan - what is the usual time scale? Also if i hear from my midwife before i get the letter i know it's high risk, if it's low i will get the results before she will x

She took my mobile number and said I would know within a week by telephone if it was high risk, or a letter would arrive in a couple of weeks if low risk.
Xx

 

[ttc126]

Maisie sorry you're going through this stress! I think based on the research from Ras and everyone it does seem like a very low risk. I'm sure your little boy will be just fine but like the others I've been on the wrong end of statistics too so i know how scary it is to feel as if nothing can be reassuring.

By the way, i love the name you have chosen! Caelen is so unique!

 

[ttc126]

Thank you swan and feronia! I'm not on Facebook, but will look into finding out more info as far as local group Some girls in my breastfeeding support group may know of local options Thanks!!!

Ras, so sorry you're sick again! Hoping it's just an odd hormone surge and not a total morning sickness relapse!

So Monday dh and i are going to have an "end of the first trimester" celebration! I have to go for my blood draw in the morning then we'll go pick out a few things for baby, then to lunch! It was one of my favorite things from my son's pregnancy so really looking forward to it.

Anyone else celebrating?

 

[kittykat7210]

i've decided to take my mum out for afternoon tea on monday, i'm thinking because i'll be 11 weeks by then i should be over the hardest bit and so could tell her then? do you think thats a good idea or should i wait until i'm definitely out of the 1st trimester? xx

 

[maisie78]

Maisie, or anyone in the UK who has had it done, how long did it take to get the NT results through the post? I had mine on thursday, Sonographer told me the risk goes up from age 37 (i'm 36) and i know my numbers are below the 3.5mm high risk (2mm & 2.1mm). Had bloods taken straight after the scan - what is the usual time scale? Also if i hear from my midwife before i get the letter i know it's high risk, if it's low i will get the results before she will x

I got mine far quicker than I expected. I had the blood drawn after my scan on Weds so at about 1230 and I got the letter in today's post.

Thanks for all the replies ladies, really appreciate them. OH doesn't seem concerned and he is usually the worry wart in our relationship so I am going to take my lead from him and be happy with my low risk result x

 

[ttc126]

Kitty i think if you are ready you should share your news! To me, there's no real magical week, and 12 weeks is just a guide Hope you have a lovely tea!

 

[bumblebeexo]

Me and hubby were just listening to baby on the Doppler and it was so strange - it felt like something pushed it away?? I'm only 10 weeks so couldn't have been baby could it? It really felt like it but I doubt it! Probably just a build up of gas or something haha!!

 

[SurpriseBub]

i've decided to take my mum out for afternoon tea on monday, i'm thinking because i'll be 11 weeks by then i should be over the hardest bit and so could tell her then? do you think thats a good idea or should i wait until i'm definitely out of the 1st trimester? xx

I had been wanting to wait, but my husband pushed me to tell my parents yesterday. I do feel better having told them and my brother... But will hold off telling anyone else for a few weeks. I think it is personal, and very up to you!

 

[bumblebeexo]

Me and hubby both decided to wait to tell our parents, only 2 weeks more to try and hide it!!

 

[Captain]

I told my mother as soon as I got my positive poas! But I've only told my mother, father, and siblings so far. We'll be with my sister-in-law and family this time next week and we're going to tell them! So excited! The week we get back from there should be the week we have our gender scan so we will tell everyone else then!

 

[ttc126]

Hey captain! Did you ever get your blood results? You feeling better?

 

[Captain]

Hey captain! Did you ever get your blood results? You feeling better?

I called the next day and they had them in, but that doctor hadn't looked at them, I was told I would have to go in and have another walk in appointment to find out my results. Some system, eh?!

I'm feeling a lot better today though thank you. I don't think I was drinking enough and with the heat I got really dehydrated. I guess I wasn't following OH's advice, "if you're not drinking you should be peeing!". I'm still thinking I will need iron supplements but I will wait until my appointment with ob Tuesday now to find out!

 

[dcm_mw12]

Had my first scan this previous Wednesday, it was a wonderful moment even though I was alone. The baby kept jumping around and waving , the heart beat was 164. It was such a lovely moment. I still haven't told my family yet, not sure how to go about that but I just want to get it over with. I also got a lot of blood drawn everything center back negative but I have a UTI. does anyone else have this or had one before from pregnancy (this is my first time for both).

Any who , how are you ladies and your lovely babies coming along so far?

 

[ttc126]

Captain, glad you're doing better! How silly you have to wait for results! Hope you have a good appointment Tuesday!

Dcm, I've had lots of utis but never during pregnancy. It's not too worrying, especially since your dr caught it and it's treating you. Are you on antibiotics? I recommend cranberry juice (not the juice cocktail but pure, unsweetened cranberry juice). That helps really fast. it's bitter, but you could put it into some carbonated water to help. The other thing you can do is put some baking soda in a shallow bath (if you're having burning). Just don't drink sugary drinks as uti bacteria thrive on sugar and make sure you drink lots and lots!