Ahhh it is so annoying, I am sooo glad that I can vent on here and I am always up for listening to a good vent bc more than likely, we are all experiencing the same feelings and going through the same things...like right now, I feel like everyone around me is getting pregnant, on facebook, all I see is pics of newborns and weekly pregnant belly pics, I turn on the tv and all DH and me can find to watch is something with pregnant people in it! lol we went to the car dealership the other day and the only other ppl there was a couple and she was 7-8 months pregnant, i was like ooohh come on! lol
Not rude at all to ask my age...we talk about more personal stuff on here than that lol although I know for some people that is a sensitive topic but for me, I don't mind...I am 28 (29 in May) and my DH is 45 (yep!) so for us, I am like, let's get a move on this, I mean he looks and acts like he is in his 30s, and has more energy than me but I don't want him to be 80 when our kid is graduating high school lol so we are def in a rush too! It comes to that time in life that you just feel like you will be even more complete with a baby right? And then you try and try and nothing while everyone around you seems like they have no issues getting pregnant...I mean it really is tough and you aren't crazy! My best friend got pregnant when she was 20, got married bc she was pregnant had the baby got divorced...well 7 years later she is ready for another baby, she just got engaged, is looking to buy a house and trying to get pregnant all at once. I saw her at xmas (we are from Boston but moved to Maryland for DH's job...so we visit when we can)...and was telling her about all of this, only to find out that she was pregnant at xmas when I saw her but she didn't want to tell me, well unfortunately for her it was ectopic...but at the same point she wasn't engaged at that point and I was like after what she went through before what is the rush. So now she is mad she has to wait to get pregnant again and I am like you are kidding me? She literally told me she had sex 2 times during that month (she had no clue what ovulation even was!) and she got pregnant, the first month of trying! When I saw her at xmas I was totally making fun of her like you can't just have sex 2 times and expect it to happen, and yet it did! So now she is all I have to wait and I am like you just got engaged, why dont' you concentrate on getting married, getting the house and then getting pregnant?? I mean really? It's not like she will have a problem getting pregnant! It is just so frustrating! Okay...I guess am in a venting kind of mood today lol
But what i am trying to say is you are totally normal for thinking that way and being frustrated. I think we all have expectations and a timeline in our head for where we want to be and when it doesn't work out for us yet it works out for everyone around us, it can be upsetting. Just know that you will get your beautiful baby and our babies will mean so much more to us because we had to try so hard, not have sex twice and boom pregnant lol We will always feel different about our little miracles than someone who doesn't have to go through what we are going through and that makes us and our soon to be babies special!!
can actually live in you for 3-5 days, so as long as you BD before you go a few times, there is a really good chance you could get pregnant naturally!!! I am glad you have some distractions, it will def make the time go by quicker...and girl, I wish I was getting some of this weight off of me!!! [VENT] One of my friends says to me the other day, so I am joining this weight loss program with some friends at work and they did all these tests and my results were that I am moderately lean...I want to be lean. I was like, really?! Mind you she works out every day for at least an hour and looks amazing, tone, all that. I told her, if you want to complain, I have friends going through the same thing as me that can't work out and on the meds the weight piles on, would you like to talk to them...she had nothing to say back! lol I was like come on, let's be a little sensitive here huh!? She knows I am very self-conscious about the weight I have gained, she was one of those, got pregnant easily...twice, barely gained any weight,was all belly, had the baby no issues with 5 pushes and baby was out, lost all the weight before her maternity leave was over...thank god I have you ladies who know how I feel! [VENT OVER] LOL
