2have4kids
Mother of 3
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I agree with the rest of the ladies, to the people who requested pics and then made rude comments, cut them right off. I've viewed pregnancy and being a mom as an educational experience for me and those around me. Sometimes you get the know-it-all mother who will put you down in what you've chosen for ____insert your topic here, for what you chose for a stroller, sleep training, delivery plan etc etc etc. They come off as oh we did this and we were told it's the best way. And I always respond with well I'm glad that worked for you, we've looked into it and this is what works for us. And with the bump, the tinier you are the more you have to show and to gain with a bump. My 5'2 gf was huge and because of this was convinced that her baby was so big it wouldn't fit through so she booked an elective section, her baby was normal size weight and I would never ever book a section unless it's an emergency and totally necessary. We all have different ways, I didn't put her down for her choices, but when she expected me to be booking a section because I have twins I educated her that not all twins need to have sections to be delivered and if I don't have to go through the pain and healing time of a section, I'll choose not to thank you. Draw your boundaries with people who've made you feel bad and educate them for goodness sake, don't put up with rude comments without letting them know that hello you aren't a bean stalk and the baby has to go somewhere! The smaller you are, the more you're meant to gain and the more you'll show. Maybe you'll save them from doing that you you a second time and maybe they'll check themselves before making rude comments to another pregnant woman.