Fed up

[HAYS]

glug glug i need a drink, had a crap day!

 

[HAYS]

Here here!

I'm super bichmode lately but BFP's do my head in unless they are from this section! I dun wanna hear about people's super sperm and orgasmatron ovaries fanks!

*puts some mini's on the shopping list* !

hear hear!!! I feel like screaming today, read an article on the web its about a year old,saying this woman concieved twice in one month!
GREEDY COW

 

[DaisyDuke]

Yep greedy and selfish snot fair, give us a chance this is cycle 13/14 for me, can't believe it, i've now become bitter and i don't like it

Pour me some

Hays ORDERS, get urself some drinky poos on the way home, u deserve it

 

[Nathyrra]

Here here!

I'm super bichmode lately but BFP's do my head in unless they are from this section! I dun wanna hear about people's super sperm and orgasmatron ovaries fanks!

*puts some mini's on the shopping list* !

hear hear!!! I feel like screaming today, read an article on the web its about a year old,saying this woman concieved twice in one month!
GREEDY COW

dood srsly

Mother nature needs to sprinkle some fairness dust! silly blind cow.

 

[HAYS]

Im on cycle 19 i think,you should be over in our section with your journal!!!!
Im bitter and twisted!!

Do you know what, im going to get me some booze!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!xx

 

[DaisyDuke]

Good girl, i know i've said if i'm not preg when i start the clomid (for unexplained infertility/lpd) on may 13th then ill come over with my journal then. Best do some house hunting put som offers in, put my ttc house on the market

 

[miel]

i keep telling myself "next month it's my month " but it's never my month ...why do we have problems ttc ? Why me ? why others after 3 months they announcing the BFP ?

it's sooooooooo unfair

i am in still totally in shock that i started clomid this month over a year ago i even did not know about the name /drug clomid !!!!

so unfair!!!

at least with have each others ladies

 

[DaisyDuke]

i keep telling myself "next month it's my month " but it's never my month ...why do we have problems ttc ? Why me ? why others after 3 months they announcing the BFP ?

it's sooooooooo unfair

i am in still totally in shock that i started clomid this month over a year ago i even did not know about the name /drug clomid !!!!

so unfair!!!

at least with have each others ladies

Miel, r u starting clomid for unexplained also? I really hope it works for u, may pop over to your journal and add u to the list of ladies i stalk

 

[miel]

yes so far unexplained ...all my tests came back fine and so my husband...i did have a polyp that was removed January 9th ( the polyp doesn't stop you to get pregnant just giving less chances to get PG as it take some space ...)so i meet with my GYN last week to see the picture of the polyp that was removed and after talking we decided that after over 16 months of ttc and about 18 cycles ttc ( i have 26 days cycles ) we will give a try to clomid 50mg ( i do ovulate so ) for 3 months and if nothing we will push the dose to clomid for a other 3 months but we will do directly IUI ...so that my plan for the next 6 months!!!
what about you ?

 

[DaisyDuke]

Pretty much identical minus the polyp, so pleased they removed it safely. I to already ovulate no probs in tests for me or dh just a lpd. The fs has said when i go on may 13th we will start clomid for 6 months, i'm hoping that if it's not happened after 3 months we will try iui also, cos u can only have clomid for so many months and i dont want to waste it ifykwim, will find out more in about 11 weeks not that i'm counting

XXX

 

[AutumnSky]

Can completely relate to the bitter and twisted-ness. On cycle 20 now, and like Miel, have just started taking clomid for unexplained infertility.

Its all very rubbish and unfair. One of my colleagues is on her first month TTC, and I'm terrified that she is going to come in and announce her pregnancy soon. I really don't think I will be able to be happy for her - how awful does that sound??! I'll probably end up bursting into tears, and completely ruining her moment. I hate that I've become so bitter, but I can't help it.

When will it be our turn???

xxxxx

 

[DaisyDuke]

Can completely relate to the bitter and twisted-ness. On cycle 20 now, and like Miel, have just started taking clomid for unexplained infertility.

Its all very rubbish and unfair. One of my colleagues is on her first month TTC, and I'm terrified that she is going to come in and announce her pregnancy soon. I really don't think I will be able to be happy for her - how awful does that sound??! I'll probably end up bursting into tears, and completely ruining her moment. I hate that I've become so bitter, but I can't help it.

When will it be our turn???

xxxxx

it really sucks doesnt it. My best friend is planning to come off bcp in August her and her husaband are uber fertiles, been preg twice and terminated there babies really has made it hard for me to look her in the eye since we have been ttc, even tho it was years ago. So i completly know how u feel, i just know she is gonna be preg before us without having to try and having decided not to have 2 of there babies already.

How is that fair

 

[HAYS]

CRAP CRAP CRAP, we all deserve it so much!

Miel your right atleast we all have eachother

love u girlies
xxx

 

[Redfraggle]

Glad its not just me,seems so unfair!!!!

I've decided I want either a kitten or a house rabbit NOW as a substitute! DAM IT

It is really unfair. The whole TTC thing totally sucks. I'm sure we will all get there evenutally though. I have to believe that otherwise I would go insane!

But totally recommend a house rabbit. We got our substitute 'baby' bunny two years ago and I love him soooo much. He is a total mummys boy as well and really really cuddly and follows me around whenever I am at home. Aww, making myself go all gooey now!!!!

Hope they drink has helped Hun.x

 

[SadieM]

It is so good to hear that other people feel the same way. We have been ttc for 2 1/2 years and in that time nearly all of our friends have had babies - some of them more than 1! What make it worse is that my horrible sister-in-law has now announced that she's pregnant. Why are horrible people allowed to have babies?!

 

[hayz1981]

I'm so with you on this. It gets worse as time goes on too. I started TTC when one of my friends had just had a baby - she's now having her second one in April. How the hell is that fair??

It's going to happen, I just don't want to hear about it until it happens for me!!

xx

 

[Farie]

sucks doesn't it

A friend is just about to de-bump ... she started trying about 6 months after me

NOT fair!!!!

sweetie

 

[CareBear]

I agree with everyone - I'm on about my 20th month of TTC, not sure how many cycles - less than that as my cycles have been ridiculously long except for when I was on clomid. TTC sucks and I hate everyone who is pregnant at the moment unless they have had difficulties or LTTC

 

[CurlySue]

I'm not even pleased for pregnant people any more. I went to an IVF open evening today and we had a counsellor talk to us. She said it's perfectly normal to feel all of these things. To be resentful. To be jealous. To be upset. To simply say "Eff off and tell someone that wants to know!"

I'm at the point now where I want to burst into tears when I heard of anybodys pregnancy because its not mine.

 

[DaisyDuke]

I'm not even pleased for pregnant people any more. I went to an IVF open evening today and we had a counsellor talk to us. She said it's perfectly normal to feel all of these things. To be resentful. To be jealous. To be upset. To simply say "Eff off and tell someone that wants to know!"

I'm at the point now where I want to burst into tears when I heard of anybodys pregnancy because its not mine.