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[redbarrell]

Hello everyone, so had some spotting 10 days ago which lasted 2/3 days, AF was due around that time, then had one day of bleeding but not much so short AF this month I guess, I am now cd 10 and for the last 4 days I have been horrible to live with, moody, bitchy to DH, my skin is horrendous (I look like a 17 yr old), I have a dull ache in my lower left side that just won't go away, a dull ache in my left BB which again won't shift and I could sleep til next month during the day but at night I can't settle and I am too hot to have the duvet near me.

Feel like total pants! my last MC was July 2010 and had one in July 2009 and been trying ever since, docs not interested as have a 14 yr old daughter and they don't seem to think there is a problem at this time!

Looking for a buddy in the same situation or been there?

 

[BearsMummy]

Hi redbarrell,
Our stories are very similar, I have a 12 year old son and have been TTC #2 for 10 years, I had a MC in April 2009.

When you say the docs are not taking you seriously, do you mean GP, FS, Gynae?? (sorry, not sure if your in the UK) But you should go back and nag, scream and cry, stamp your feet and refuse to move until you are taken seriously!

You should also a doc about how you are feeling, have you ruled out the possibility of a bfp? Doing a test would be my first point with that, then you have more info to go armed to the docs with.

You are more than welcome to message me anytime.

I hope things work out for you

 

[redbarrell]

Ah thanks for responding, its good to hear from other people. 10 years, you must be going out of your mind, are you being given any help?

I am in the UK so its my GP I am having a problem with, I was actuallu refered to a Fertility guy about a year ago who actually phoned my GP and said he was wasting his time and I shouldn't be there until I had had a least 3 MC, I was gobsmacked and me and DH felt so deflated so decided to just keep at it, I was tracking temps etc for a long time but now just keep an overview of how I feel. as its too stressful otherwise.

I last saw the GP 4 weeks ago and he said, due to my history??? I am guessing 1 child and 2 further pregnancies is what he is talking about? He felt the outcome would be inevitable, what on earth that is supposed to mean I do not know, he had a poke round my belly and basically laughed a bit and said to come back next year! I am going back on Thursday to see a different doctor and will do as you say, jump up and down, cry etc etc.

I did a HPT just before I started spotting and it was neg, haven't done once since as didn't see the point.

RB xx