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Hi all
This time last week I’d begun spotting. I can’t believe it’s been a week already tbh. A week ago tomorrow I saw my gp and a week on Wednesday would have been my 12 week scan which ended up being a scan to confirm I had passed everything and didn’t need medical intervention. My eldest (17) asked me a day or 2 ago if we were going to try again. I said I couldn’t even think about it right now but later that night told my other half what she had asked and he said he wasn’t going to say no but at the same time couldn’t think about it atm as naturally it was so soon and still very raw. I get we have to grieve and deal with the loss totally but I’d like to think we’d have the chance again. It’s been on my mind quite a bit this evening and although I’m emotionally raw about the loss, at the same time I keep hearing his words over again and it’s troubling me a little. I feel really selfish as I feel I haven’t us both time to get past the loss without thinking forward but the baby was really wanted by both. Is this normal or am I just being selfish??? TIA xxx
This time last week I’d begun spotting. I can’t believe it’s been a week already tbh. A week ago tomorrow I saw my gp and a week on Wednesday would have been my 12 week scan which ended up being a scan to confirm I had passed everything and didn’t need medical intervention. My eldest (17) asked me a day or 2 ago if we were going to try again. I said I couldn’t even think about it right now but later that night told my other half what she had asked and he said he wasn’t going to say no but at the same time couldn’t think about it atm as naturally it was so soon and still very raw. I get we have to grieve and deal with the loss totally but I’d like to think we’d have the chance again. It’s been on my mind quite a bit this evening and although I’m emotionally raw about the loss, at the same time I keep hearing his words over again and it’s troubling me a little. I feel really selfish as I feel I haven’t us both time to get past the loss without thinking forward but the baby was really wanted by both. Is this normal or am I just being selfish??? TIA xxx