It's pretty hard, I agree.
I have a sister with 2 kids but still waiting for my own, and my younger sister is looking at adoption after failed IVF and 6 years ttc. My cousins are also facing issues.
It seems everyone in my family is having fertility issues which really sucks but part of me is also relieved we are not bombarded by pg announcements (yet).
Sticky dust to you ladies and I hope you get your bfps soon!