feeling bad...

[Tezzy]

i feel really really bad because i went in mothercare today and was looking at all the baby clothes, then i came on here and was looking at pictures of Caitlin, also we have friends visiting today with their 7 week old baby girl and i suddenly realised how much i really want this baby to be a girl....

it would just be a dream come true to have one of each... its all i can think about! we have our scan in just under 3 weeks and just cant wait to find out the sex.

obviously if its a boy i will still love him the same and everything! thats why i feel so bad hoping that its a girl coz it really doesnt make any difference...

also i found myself thinking of labour today and secretly hoping it will be shorter than Rhys' (only 3 hrs from waters breaking) which i know is really really selfish considering some women are in labour for days!

i just feel like im being so selfish! i know i shouldnt be feeling like this

 

[goldlion]

You definitely aren't selfish, Terry!
It's okay to dream of having a specific sex, especially since you've got a gorgeous boy already. I secretly dream I was having a girl, but if it's a boy I will love him the same.

I find a lot of women want their baby girl, just as many men want their little men. You sooo are NOT selfish! It's fine to dream,and like you said.. you'll still love the baby exactly the same if it's a boy.

As for labour--- I don't know any woman who DOESN'T want a short labour lol! We'd be crazy for wishing a long one on ourselves.

Cheer up, chick! You shouldn't feel bad about these things! I'll be thinking pink for you