Ok so ive had 2 normal deliveries and baby is now 9 weeks old and were now back to dtd but i feel that i feel so loose down there now its horrible. Maybe it's my fault as to be honest i cant be bothered doing kegals and I know i should be. Do you really get a loose feeling after 2 births. I have asked my partner but i just think hes being nice about it but if i dont feel that much anymore then surely he doesn't also. Have been looking at getting a electric pelvic toner but will it really work? As dont want to go spending nearly 70 for it to be useless.