I really don't know how much more grief I can cope with before I lose my mind. I have had 4 miscarriages. My last one was 20 weeks. I ended up giving birth at the hospital and leaving feeling empty, and empty-handed.
After going to a fertility clinic today in a desperate attempt to find some answers to our recurrent miscarriage problem and to plan for our 5th pregnancy; the doctors still have no idea why this keeps happening, and I am feeling so hopeless. For us at least; the fertility clinic was a waste of time.
There are no real answers. This time it was a umbilical cord stricture, but how do I prevent this? You apparently can't.
There is no decisive help. I'm floundering. Since I seem to be able to get pregnant; I suppose I have no option but to try again... and yet... I am filled with anxiety of what seems to be the inevitable.
How can I embrace and feel hopeful for my next pregnancy? How do I maintain my sanity at work? How do I return to work with no bump and ward off all of the stupid empty sympathetic remarks? Does any-one else loathe empty sympathy?
I am slowly going crazy. Extensive therapy and a nut-house may be in my future.
I was hoping to find some positive stories of people who have success after recurrent miscarriages like me. How did you maintain hope? Was there a test or reason for your recurrent loss? Anything would be helpful.
After going to a fertility clinic today in a desperate attempt to find some answers to our recurrent miscarriage problem and to plan for our 5th pregnancy; the doctors still have no idea why this keeps happening, and I am feeling so hopeless. For us at least; the fertility clinic was a waste of time.
There are no real answers. This time it was a umbilical cord stricture, but how do I prevent this? You apparently can't.
There is no decisive help. I'm floundering. Since I seem to be able to get pregnant; I suppose I have no option but to try again... and yet... I am filled with anxiety of what seems to be the inevitable.
How can I embrace and feel hopeful for my next pregnancy? How do I maintain my sanity at work? How do I return to work with no bump and ward off all of the stupid empty sympathetic remarks? Does any-one else loathe empty sympathy?
I am slowly going crazy. Extensive therapy and a nut-house may be in my future.
I was hoping to find some positive stories of people who have success after recurrent miscarriages like me. How did you maintain hope? Was there a test or reason for your recurrent loss? Anything would be helpful.