Hi
New to the site and having a crap weekend have just had a BFN so feeling a little low.
Me and DH have been trying for the last 5 yrs but have only been looking into why not in the last 2 yrs. So spent 2009 trying to find out why not tests etc to find out unexplainble went to accupucture for a while to see if we could sort it ourselves but ended up going back to the clinic and had our first cycle of IVF Jan Feb 2010 found it tough going, but were delighted when when we had 13 mature eggs and all was well with DH. too. So were not expecting a phonecall to tell us none of our eggs had fertilised, devastated the though never even crossed our minds.
So next time round the clinic obviously advised ICSI this time found it easier knowing what to expect also was just in a better place fitter going to acupuncture regularly just felt much better this time round. We had 30 eggs this time and 24 fertilised ( I know I should be jumping for joy) obviously OHS was a concern but thankfully never happened. Anyway we had 8 eggs go onto blast stage and they decide to 1 for transfer 7 frozen, we were delaighted.
Had been feeling good but low and behold AF arrived yesterday test done and BFN devastated couldn't believe it, but such is life eh.
Anyway just not sure what to do whether to take break give up all together ah I know that will pass but just feeling crappy.
Does anyone know procedure for frozen tfr?
It didn't help that 2 of the girls at work just had babies 1 of whom was upset when she found out she was pregers cause she already had 2 and didn't want anymore, and I am delighted for them but sometimes it just hurts or people telling you oh your so lucky you don't have kids they're a nightmare ahh... ok no more giving out its not good for the soul. thanks for leaving me rant looking forward to hearing form you.
New to the site and having a crap weekend have just had a BFN so feeling a little low.
Me and DH have been trying for the last 5 yrs but have only been looking into why not in the last 2 yrs. So spent 2009 trying to find out why not tests etc to find out unexplainble went to accupucture for a while to see if we could sort it ourselves but ended up going back to the clinic and had our first cycle of IVF Jan Feb 2010 found it tough going, but were delighted when when we had 13 mature eggs and all was well with DH. too. So were not expecting a phonecall to tell us none of our eggs had fertilised, devastated the though never even crossed our minds.
So next time round the clinic obviously advised ICSI this time found it easier knowing what to expect also was just in a better place fitter going to acupuncture regularly just felt much better this time round. We had 30 eggs this time and 24 fertilised ( I know I should be jumping for joy) obviously OHS was a concern but thankfully never happened. Anyway we had 8 eggs go onto blast stage and they decide to 1 for transfer 7 frozen, we were delaighted.
Had been feeling good but low and behold AF arrived yesterday test done and BFN devastated couldn't believe it, but such is life eh.
Anyway just not sure what to do whether to take break give up all together ah I know that will pass but just feeling crappy.
Does anyone know procedure for frozen tfr?
It didn't help that 2 of the girls at work just had babies 1 of whom was upset when she found out she was pregers cause she already had 2 and didn't want anymore, and I am delighted for them but sometimes it just hurts or people telling you oh your so lucky you don't have kids they're a nightmare ahh... ok no more giving out its not good for the soul. thanks for leaving me rant looking forward to hearing form you.
AF is so devastating after...more so I think after anything artificial. I know I was completely devastated after my failed IUI a few months back.
