ok....I got a dogand every time I talk about him I say My Baby... and when my MIL sees him I refer to him as her grandchild... she is now calling him that too... HAHAHAHA...and HE IS!!
But I think she finally eased off a bit
for you then. I hope to see the good news here soon then 
specially when they get a bit too personal and they don´t realise that it hurts talking about it.Oh, I see!
Well lots of
We have not told anyone either, None of us have any children that is why they keep asking. We are not telling anyone we are trying because I dread more questions
with my charts, temps, OPK, PK, Forums and a schedule for him for when to 
It is funny to see his face with all that 
soonAh, I can relate to that. I have been pregnant before and was unplanned as well, but that turned into a bad experience, that is why it has taken me years to decide to try. I am 36 now and trying for my frist child. Like yourself, it is all new to me.
My OH thinks I have gone all loopy now.
It is nice to have a 20 year old though and hopefully your
It is admirable. Raising a child is difficult, even more on your own. But I bet very rewarding when you look at your 20 year old now!
Yes, my OH says the same thing, he thought you just BD and we get pregnant, it is not that easy! as we know here!
I migh have to go through IVF myself, I am TTC naturally at the moment, but due to my molar pregnancy when I was 30, IVF might be the way to grant it does not happen again... we will see.
If you don´t mind me asking...have you started your IVF process? If so, I hope you succeed soon! I have 3 friends who had IVF and the result was 3 gorgeous babies... well now between 5 and 10 year olds
IVF scares me a little but hey! I have seen the rewarding results of it
to all.
For years I used the humorous approach whenever someone asked when we were going to have a baby - I'd tell them that we were very happy with our cat, thank you for asking. But eventually I got fed up enough and started responding with, "If you're not God and you're not my husband, it's none of your damned business." And I really don't care if my response made them uncomfortable, their question made me uncomfortable! Society needs to realize that family planning is a private matter and NOT a suitable topic for small talk.
Hi Sus, all, yeah I have this problem as well - from a very pushy family. My 2 YOUNGER sisters have had 6 kids between them, so I am always getting the 'when are you going to...' 'getting a bit late in the day isn't it...' blah blah from all of them. Talking of insensitive mothers, my mother - bless her - told me "you're not woman until you've had a baby!"... uhhh, thanks mother! They don't know about the ttc, so I think she was just trying to persuade me to consider it... but yeah. All a bit hurtful when you're REALLY trying with no result.
Anyway....... very glad of the shared experiences on this site
