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Lost7
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Each night I dream about Jake, who I lost in March. His due date was October 13th.
Each dream is different and ranges from he's back for a short time only, to he's mad and angry with me and blames me for his death.
I recently made him a teddy and I am in the process of making a rememberence box for him.
I've also bought a light up decoration for our Christmas Tree with his name on.
I just keep thinking about how he should be 5/6 weeks old and what I should be buying for his First Christmas.
I lost him very early into the pregnancy with nothing to show for it apart from a couple of clearly positive tests. I had an ultrasound but because he was so young he wasn't seen, we have no idea even where he was.
I don't think LTTTC helps, it's been 16 months now and still nothing. Is it really so bad we want a baby for Christmas? We don't want or need anything else, just a baby of our own.
We went shopping the other evening and I saw cots, Moses baskets, bedding, toys, blankets, prams - everything baby related and all I saw when I looked into them was Jake and what he'd look like now in them.
I just can't be done with grieving and I don't know what's stopping me. I've had 9 miscarriages now but I felt an emotional bond with Jake for some reason. I honestly thought our rainbow had come. Usually I get a positive then only 2-6 days later bleed. He was different. It took weeks to actually lose him. I genuinely believed he was going to stay.
I really don't know how to move on when he's no longer in our lives. It's heartbreaking and upsetting.
Each dream is different and ranges from he's back for a short time only, to he's mad and angry with me and blames me for his death.
I recently made him a teddy and I am in the process of making a rememberence box for him.
I've also bought a light up decoration for our Christmas Tree with his name on.
I just keep thinking about how he should be 5/6 weeks old and what I should be buying for his First Christmas.
I lost him very early into the pregnancy with nothing to show for it apart from a couple of clearly positive tests. I had an ultrasound but because he was so young he wasn't seen, we have no idea even where he was.
I don't think LTTTC helps, it's been 16 months now and still nothing. Is it really so bad we want a baby for Christmas? We don't want or need anything else, just a baby of our own.
We went shopping the other evening and I saw cots, Moses baskets, bedding, toys, blankets, prams - everything baby related and all I saw when I looked into them was Jake and what he'd look like now in them.
I just can't be done with grieving and I don't know what's stopping me. I've had 9 miscarriages now but I felt an emotional bond with Jake for some reason. I honestly thought our rainbow had come. Usually I get a positive then only 2-6 days later bleed. He was different. It took weeks to actually lose him. I genuinely believed he was going to stay.
I really don't know how to move on when he's no longer in our lives. It's heartbreaking and upsetting.