Feeling lonely and sad :(

Court and bub

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I went to my doctors / midwife clinic yesterday at the hospital and saw all these young pregnant couples together going to there appointments and looking very excited and happy and then there is me all alone doing everything by myself being responsible and growing up .
I wish I had some one to do this with I wish I had a partner to love me and my son be excited and grow up with me , the baby's dad is still immature but now he wants to be in the baby's life after the only reason our 2 year relationship ended was because I was pregnant and he couldn't handle it , it sucks because I still have feelings for him .
Plus all my friends are so immature and I feel like where at totally different places in our lives , I don't think we will be friends for much longer :(
 
i know exactly how you feel i goto all these couple classes and see everyone with their partner and eventhough me and my partner are still together he's just not fully their with the pregnancy hes not ready and he seems like he doesnt take anything seriously he said yesterday he's gonna change and i hope so because if he doesnt by the time the baby comes im gonna have to leave him forever and i hate everyone looking at me as oh look at that pregnant teen with no dad for her baby because my baby does have a father things are just complicated but thats how they see me :( if you need to talk to anyone pm me.
 
Oh hugs! Just think about it like this though.. You get twice the love, twice the cuddles and twice the pride! :hugs:
 
I know how u feel, I use to be really emotional at the beginning of my pregnancy cause the baby's dad wasnt happy I was pregnant tbh don't think still is but he's warming up. Either way I said ill do it on my own. I just kept thinking about my baby and how it would love me n id love he/she. Me too I wish I had a partner too, I go to my appointments alone but the scan cheers me up when I see the LO. Be strong girl, everything will get better for you just think of u being a great mummy
 
Aww I totally know how you feel, and our hormones are out of wack on top of everything.
Me and my boyfriend are together and we planned this and we are both definately ready, but hes been in jail since i was 5 weeks along. I am now nearly 38 weeks along, and have gone to every appointment every ultrasound by myself, spent every night alone. It can get pretty emotional, but as women we are strong and will do what need to be done for our babies. All will be fine
 
hi court and bub
can i ask how many weeks pregnant are you and when the baby due date please?
 
I know how you feel:hugs: during pregnancy I through it alone:(. I've also been wif FOB for two years and it all ended a couple of weeks after finding out about the pregnancy..even though he has hurt me so bad,making me go through the whole pregnancy Alone I still too have feelings for him. It really hurts how things ended. Not much advice but I hope u feel better soon:hugs:
 
Not really gonna help much but hope ur ok and these feelings will get better ones your little buba is hear :) xx
 

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