Louise88
Dd- ciara and ds- James
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It's been agreed pretty much since the 12 week scan that if our baby was a boy he was getting called James, it was the only name we agreed on and everyone liked the name, when I got told my baby was a boy at my 20 week scan I have bonded with my son who has become James to me. Me and oh went out for his aunties 50th a couple weeks ago and oh's grandad suggested we call our baby Matthew James instead but call him by his middle name James (Matthew is my oh's name btw) since then my oh has been adamant that our son should be registered as Matthew James and we call him by his middle name, I don't want to do that at all, if were going to call him James anyways why can't we register him as James? I do like the name Matthew but I'm not keen on calling my son the same name as my oh. If my son got registered as Matthew then I'd personally have a hard time calling him James as to me that wouldn't be his name if that makes sense. I know years and years ago it was common to name your first son after their dad but reference to them as their middle name (my dad is one of those) but it's not the known thing now and I just think it would cause confusion at school and stuff if my son is telling friends he's called James yet on the morning register he's getting called Matthew.
I've voiced how much I don't want to call my son Matthew James and it seems its 1 against everyone else because oh and his whole family are telling me my son will be registered Matthew James.
Why don't I get a say in my sons name? I'm really upset as I've bonded with my baby James and I feel my baby James is being robbed from me
Am I being petty? Or would you feel weird calling your son by his middle name as well?
I've voiced how much I don't want to call my son Matthew James and it seems its 1 against everyone else because oh and his whole family are telling me my son will be registered Matthew James.
Why don't I get a say in my sons name? I'm really upset as I've bonded with my baby James and I feel my baby James is being robbed from me
Am I being petty? Or would you feel weird calling your son by his middle name as well?