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it would cause confusion at school and stuff if my son is telling friends he's called James yet on the morning register he's getting called Matthew.
to be honest I think your being a little silly over it, yes you have a say and if you dont like Matthew then that's fine but their is nothing wrong with going by their middle name, in fact its way more common than you would assume
I live pretty close to you my sons first name has never been called out on the register at school or anything else lol... you just tell them what name he uses, in fact the application form for school admission says:
full legal name: ............................................
name known by: .............................................
then they are only called by the name written in the known by section
my whole family go by their middle name and their has never been a problem