LovemyBubx
Mummy, Daddy & Daughter
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I need to get my feelings out I know all you ladies are lovely so hope I can hear some of your opinions.
We have a beautiful 4 year old DD. I've always wanted to give her a sibling but we had to wait. We eventually TTC but had a loss in April.
We have waited again to deal with our loss & also we didn't want another march baby.
For all my life I have always said I don't want a 6 year gap or more between my children (Just my own personal feelings, I wanted children close in age) time is running out on that.
Part of me is desperate for a baby but now I'm also wondering if we should have another at all.
DD is starting to get old enough to do more activities we can do as a family, bike riding, cinema, horse riding, she can go on bigger rides at theme parks etc.
I feel scared that a baby will hold us back from all of that or we will have to split up constantly. Also we would love to take DD abroad (would that be too hard with a baby/toddler in tow??)
I also want to change my job soon when DD goes to school I'll feel mean if I'm pregnant soon after starting.
Sorry if this is all a ramble I'm so torn
We have a beautiful 4 year old DD. I've always wanted to give her a sibling but we had to wait. We eventually TTC but had a loss in April.
We have waited again to deal with our loss & also we didn't want another march baby.
For all my life I have always said I don't want a 6 year gap or more between my children (Just my own personal feelings, I wanted children close in age) time is running out on that.
Part of me is desperate for a baby but now I'm also wondering if we should have another at all.
DD is starting to get old enough to do more activities we can do as a family, bike riding, cinema, horse riding, she can go on bigger rides at theme parks etc.
I feel scared that a baby will hold us back from all of that or we will have to split up constantly. Also we would love to take DD abroad (would that be too hard with a baby/toddler in tow??)
I also want to change my job soon when DD goes to school I'll feel mean if I'm pregnant soon after starting.
Sorry if this is all a ramble I'm so torn