HopeAlways
Grieving again
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Today is CD 6 into my second TTC cycle after my miscarriage in December. I surprised myself by getting excited to try again the first month after mmc but it ended in a BFN which has put me in a funk. It kept me busy to OPK and symptom monitoring but once it ended in nothing all the emotions kept flooding back. DH wants to understand but has no idea what it feels like to experience continued disappointment and crazy emotions. A part of me wants to give up and let nature takes it course but another part knows we should keep trying. I can't let myself give up just after one month of TTC after the miscarriage. I know I might be very fertile now but I also know my body may not be fully ready again. DH is staying positive and really wants to work hard this month but I am hesitant to experience the loss again at the end of the month.
I just need to vent and get out my feelings. I truly appreciate having this forum to experience my frustrations. I wish I knew why I lost our little one and I would give anything to have that baby back. We saw the heartbeat at 6 weeks but we never heard it. What I would give to redo that last appointment (11 weeks) where we learned she had died. Breaks my heart to know I couldn't help her. Now I get to see 3 other women at work happily progressing through their pregnancies. Why me? Why any woman? Things just aren't making sense to me lately. We have so much love to give and want nothing more to love our baby. God meant for women to be "fruitful and multiply" so I pray He gives us all the chance to fulfill His Word.
I just need to vent and get out my feelings. I truly appreciate having this forum to experience my frustrations. I wish I knew why I lost our little one and I would give anything to have that baby back. We saw the heartbeat at 6 weeks but we never heard it. What I would give to redo that last appointment (11 weeks) where we learned she had died. Breaks my heart to know I couldn't help her. Now I get to see 3 other women at work happily progressing through their pregnancies. Why me? Why any woman? Things just aren't making sense to me lately. We have so much love to give and want nothing more to love our baby. God meant for women to be "fruitful and multiply" so I pray He gives us all the chance to fulfill His Word.