Fertility Referrals after a Miscarriage

[SweetJennie]

Hello!

I will give a bit of background information before I get into my question....

I have PCOS and my OH has very low sperm count (4 Mill) and low motility. His urologist told us it wasn't impossible for him to get me pregnant just very very unlikely and "it would be a miracle from God" if we ever got pregnant naturally without IVF/ICSI. We had been NTNP for about 1.5 yrs and TTC for about 18 months when I got my BFP. I had a miscarriage at 10 weeks. I had just received a call for my referral to see the fertility specialist to get the ball rolling for treatment and now I am at square one. My gyno told me today that they will look at it as even though OH had a very crummy SA (3 crummy SAs to be exact) and his count is very low they will tell us we need to TTC for a year because technically they will say we have only been TTC for less then a month!! Everything we have gone through was for nothing because we got pregnant and even though we lost it we are at square one and told we have to wait for assistance! UGH! If having a miscarriage wasn't bad enough. We know the chances of getting pregnant naturally are very very low and OH had a test last week that confirmed he has had no improvement so why not throw us a bone and give us a bit of help?

Anyone experiencing this?

 

[ebony2010]

I'm in the UK so it may be different here but I was seeing an FS before I fell pregnant. We'd had one appointment and a HSG and were waiting to go back to discuss clomid when I fell pregnant. While in the hospital for my ERPC the nurse told me I' be referred back to the FS as my follow up appointment. Anyway I've been back and they basically picked up where we left off as though I was never pregnant.

If I was you I'd push to get seen. You may have concieved they know you have things against you that need looking at. Good luck. x