trumpetbum
2 girls..boy on the way.
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Anyone else coping with siblings who can't seem to spend 10 minutes together sometimes without declaring war on each other?
I have two very sweet daughters 8 and almost 11. The younger one is very well behaved, polite and helpful and the older one while definitely harder work and with a few social, maturity and attention issues is generally well behaved and nice to be around. That is individually!! Sometimes it feels as though they can't be around each other without shouting, screaming and fighting and of course it was always the other one who started it etc, etc. The world is unfair to them because they got into trouble and it wasn't their fault etc. I usually cope quite well and deal with these outbursts as they arise but I'm finding it difficult due to being on clinical placement for the next ten weeks, coping with this afterwards and at the weekends, i sometimes feel like just locking my room doo and letting them get on with it, this pregnancy is bringing out the inner 10 year old in ME. Everyone tells me this is normal for same sex siblings so close in age but constantly??
Has anyone successfully curbed this?
I would like to get more on top of it before the baby comes along, especially as they are so great otherwise and I hate being on their case all the time. I should mention that we do get the occassional moments of bliss, when they play well together and then I think 'ah why can't they be like that at least 50% of the time
Ahh vent over, that feels good
I have two very sweet daughters 8 and almost 11. The younger one is very well behaved, polite and helpful and the older one while definitely harder work and with a few social, maturity and attention issues is generally well behaved and nice to be around. That is individually!! Sometimes it feels as though they can't be around each other without shouting, screaming and fighting and of course it was always the other one who started it etc, etc. The world is unfair to them because they got into trouble and it wasn't their fault etc. I usually cope quite well and deal with these outbursts as they arise but I'm finding it difficult due to being on clinical placement for the next ten weeks, coping with this afterwards and at the weekends, i sometimes feel like just locking my room doo and letting them get on with it, this pregnancy is bringing out the inner 10 year old in ME. Everyone tells me this is normal for same sex siblings so close in age but constantly??
Has anyone successfully curbed this?
I would like to get more on top of it before the baby comes along, especially as they are so great otherwise and I hate being on their case all the time. I should mention that we do get the occassional moments of bliss, when they play well together and then I think 'ah why can't they be like that at least 50% of the time
Ahh vent over, that feels good