Wnt2beAMom
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So, we stayed team yellow with my son (because my husband wanted to) and had a fairly tramatic birth, so finding out he was a boy at birth was not a beautiful moment, but more a relief.
This time I'd like to find out early but DH still doesn't. He says if we do he'd want to keep it a secret from other people and find out close to the birth so we don't have a lot of time to accidentally spill the beans and "pre-name" the baby and such. I really love how we named our son on a whim, like the name just came to us. It wasn't even on our list we had.
So, I'm on the fence. He has a good point but I don't think I have the self control to wait again..
I also think it would be better to prepare our son for either a brother or sister and not "surprise" him. My friend says her son cried because he wanted a sister but got a brother..
This time I'd like to find out early but DH still doesn't. He says if we do he'd want to keep it a secret from other people and find out close to the birth so we don't have a lot of time to accidentally spill the beans and "pre-name" the baby and such. I really love how we named our son on a whim, like the name just came to us. It wasn't even on our list we had.
So, I'm on the fence. He has a good point but I don't think I have the self control to wait again..
I also think it would be better to prepare our son for either a brother or sister and not "surprise" him. My friend says her son cried because he wanted a sister but got a brother..