Fireflies to Rainbows

[NDH]

This thread is a continuation of the Fireflies TTC a rainbow baby group for pregnancy chat and encouragement.

Affirmations:
"Love them for as long as you have them"
“Today I am pregnant and I love my baby.”
“I am pregnant until someone tells me otherwise.”
“My past does not dictate my future. A previous miscarriage does not mean I will have another miscarriage.”
“Just because something sad is happening to someone you know, does not mean it will happen to you.” We all know miscarriage and complications are not contagious!
“Hope does not make bad things happen” You cannot ‘jinx’ your pregnancy by creating a ticker, getting excited, or telling someone. Live in the positive!
“There is nothing I can do to prevent a miscarriage from happening. Worrying yourself sick doesn’t prevent a miscarriage And if (god forbid) it were to happen again, I know I will survive.”
“My past does not dictate my future. A previous miscarriage does not mean I will have another miscarriage.”




Due Dates:


CelticNiamh ~ November 23, 2015
OneMore Time ~ November 30, 2015
Jumpingo ~ December 7, 2015




Waiting room:
Sunshine2014
wantingagirl
Lil_Pixie​

Babies not meant to be:
NDH ~ Mira, vanished from the womb at by 10+4

 

[jumpingo]

woot woot!!!

thanks NDH!!!

due dec 7th.

p.s. all this is putting a huge smile on my face and making me feel so optimistic (so THIS is what that feels like??). let's hope it lasts for the WHOLE day!

 

[NDH]

Added you

"Love them for as long as you have them" is the advice a friend who is a foster carer recently gave me, and I'm taking it to heart for a pregnancy affirmation.

 

[jumpingo]

"Love them for as long as you have them"

ooooh, i love that. i'm adding it to my list of mantras.

 

[CelticNiamh]

Thanks NDH for starting this thread delighted its needed

I love that saying

DD is 23 November

 

[NDH]

Added you too How exciting that we're all drifting over here now!

 

[CelticNiamh]

I found these mantras a while back and I have been reading them this morning to keep me going so thought I would share,

1. “Today I am pregnant and I love my baby.”
2. “I am pregnant until someone tells me otherwise.”
3. “My past does not dictate my future. A previous miscarriage does not mean I will have another miscarriage.”
4. “Just because something sad is happening to someone you know, does not mean it will happen to you.” We all know miscarriage and complications are not contagious!
5. “Hope does not make bad things happen” You cannot ‘jinx’ your pregnancy by creating a ticker, getting excited, or telling someone. Live in the positive!
6. Hardest one: “There is nothing I can do to prevent a miscarriage from happening. Worrying yourself sick doesn’t prevent a miscarriage And if (god forbid) it were to happen again, I know I will survive.”

 

[OneMore Time]

So happy to see this today.

I love all the sayings - I need to repeat them today. I am not feeling positive about this pregnancy. Just one of those mornings I guess.

My EDD based on LMP is November 30.

Have a happy morning!!

 

[CelticNiamh]

So happy to see this today.

I love all the sayings - I need to repeat them today. I am not feeling positive about this pregnancy. Just one of those mornings I guess.

My EDD based on LMP is November 30.

Have a happy morning!!

I hear you had a bad morning my self was so down but feel a little better now

Repeat number number 3

 

[wantingagirl]

this is a fab idea im here and excitedly awaiting my rainbow!

makes sense means ones that are due can talk about same things same time, ttc is separate and this one incorporates everyone in no matter when they are due. Means I wont feel bad if I cant pop in and out the December one often as you are all on here xxx

 

[wantingagirl]

So happy to see this today.

I love all the sayings - I need to repeat them today. I am not feeling positive about this pregnancy. Just one of those mornings I guess.

My EDD based on LMP is November 30.

Have a happy morning!!

I hear you had a bad morning my self was so down but feel a little better now

Repeat number number 3

glad your feeling better hunni step away from the digi xx

 

[wantingagirl]

as you all know im better today yesterday was awful but still pretty down but for different reasons glad I have you all xx

 

[sunshine2014]

Awww wanting sorry you're down! Hope we can help in some way!

Thanks for starting this group! I'll let you know my possible due date if my appt goes well next week!

Here is where I can talk about pregnanxy stuff right? WELL....ms was the worst ever yesterday. Seriously. I couldn't move the entire day and coukdnt eat. I took two pills before bed and another this morning, I didnt use the prescription much last time because I didn't want to just give in, but yesterday IT was a MUST. I was in tears. So we will see if they begin to work, todsy I'm off to a better stsrt.

Officially can't drink my morning tea though! Cold cold cold drinks here lol

 

[wantingagirl]

Awww wanting sorry you're down! Hope we can help in some way!

Thanks for starting this group! I'll let you know my possible due date if my appt goes well next week!

Here is where I can talk about pregnanxy stuff right? WELL....ms was the worst ever yesterday. Seriously. I couldn't move the entire day and coukdnt eat. I took two pills before bed and another this morning, I didnt use the prescription much last time because I didn't want to just give in, but yesterday IT was a MUST. I was in tears. So we will see if they begin to work, todsy I'm off to a better stsrt.

Officially can't drink my morning tea though! Cold cold cold drinks here lol

It's in my journal Hun don't want to bring you guys down on this one. I'm happy to talk about pregnancy esp with you guys couldn't be so quite jolly about it with anyone else

Oh poor you with the sickness hope it even gets slightly better soon xx

 

[CelticNiamh]

wanting yea feel lots better and the digital is still unused in my bag! I think I will wait till next week to do it HCG should be high enough then to get the 3+ or I may change my mind not as worked up now I actually met my friend and had a cup of coffee and felt yuck after wards and it was like I was having a hot flush it eased off but then I got supper thirsty and only water will do cold water. not to mention I need sleep so hoping I can grab 20 minutes even to help ease that FX I am so glad you are feeling better today

Sunshine water lot and lots of cold water helps, ginger is good as well and eating small and often sometimes you will fill sick and afraid to eat but if you actually try, it can help as an empty stomach makes it feel worse. I used to try ginger ale you kind of have to experiment to find what works best it is such a good sign though

I was a little naughty I have about 3 of the internet cheapies left so I used one and it is supper dark crazy the difference a week makes they were real squinters last week I have two left and I probably will use them over the next few days

Going to focus on this today :
“My past does not dictate my future. A previous miscarriage does not mean I will have another miscarriage.”

 

[sunshine2014]

Thanks Niamh! I've tried flat ginger ale, it worked a bit last night. I'm finding anything super cold works today, I just had a freezie. I want to go get another one, but its all the way downstairs I'm back in bed now, stretching out feels good. I'm a wee bit repulsed by water, which is frustrating as its normally my go to :S oh well lol

Naps are my life right now. I can't imagine how people do this with kids. I'm a complete right off, and having to take care of someone seems impossible to me. I know when you're a mom, and yiu have to do it, you just do. But I can't imagine Thst right now.

Wanting, I'll go take a look!

Love all the positive mantras on here!

 

[Lil_Pixie]

Sunshine with my last pregnancy I went back to the good old "sleep when the baby sleeps"

Obviously in my case the "baby" is three, so I was going to bed with him at 7pm

 

[NDH]

Updated

 

[CelticNiamh]

How is every one doing

I found this have it saved in my journal to peak at but thought I would share for anyone else not quite ready for a ticker yet but I like checking this https://www.askbaby.com/baby-development-pictures.htm

MS has arrived felt very sick nearly all day yesterday and so tired actually every day I need a nap or I just can not function it is reassuring though so hoping the ms sticks around

 

[NDH]

BAD

Spoiler

I think someone may have to put in a request to take over this thread... Randomly used an IC and it came up stark white, took a FRER and also stark white... Can't figure out how even as isn't there still supposed to be *some* HcG even if the baby has died if it's still inside? I haven't passed anything so what happened?