kwfuller I'm sorry it hasn't been easy to conceive.. I don't really have a list of questions but here is what I did after a year of TTC. I called my doctor couple months prior to my appointment and told her I would rather not wait much longer and would like to do necessary steps prior to our appointment so we had something on hands to discuss. She ordered blood test for me on day 3 of my cycle to see my hormone levels, semen analysis for DH, uterus ultrasound on day 8 of my cycle. I think those are the first steps you might want to ask for when you see your doctor. Best of luck!