Sophina
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Hi guys! I've been off the site for a month or two since we had a big disappointment in the spring. I'm 31 and BF is 35, we've been together just under 2 years now. I was previously using a paragard iud but I had it removed in January. We were NTNP until March when AF decided to go on hiatus for like four months. We had a BFP but a negative blood test and we were so horribly disappointed (there was a thread about it in the NTNP forum). So we decided to start trying for real as soon as possible. AF finally reappeared this month so it is on! We're trying to be very low stress about it because I'm clearly affected by stress, so the plan is just to BD as close to every other day as possible. Also it's been so long since I had a normal cycle that I'm not really sure what day my ovulation should be now, since there's really no way to know if my cycle will return to what they were before.
This is hard, BF wants children very badly, and now I think we're both worried about whether it'll happen for us. Neither one of us is getting younger. So I'm here for some support and some companionship and, you know, any advice anyone cares to throw my way too!
This is hard, BF wants children very badly, and now I think we're both worried about whether it'll happen for us. Neither one of us is getting younger. So I'm here for some support and some companionship and, you know, any advice anyone cares to throw my way too!
