If I look at your temps alone I would say cd13 but the temps aren't the only thing. Your cm and opk make me say cd14. I think your bd was perfect for cd14, and excellent cd13 because you bd 2 days before too. I think you got it covered. It's time to find something to keep your mind occupied during the tww.
Well, you begged and get to try again, you only have to ask for one at a time

. Then your dh can adjust to just one more, one at a time. It is hard.
What day do you normally poas? I start testing at 8dpo, got my earliest bfp the evening of 9dpp and he just snuggled up and fell asleep. What kind of opks did you use? If you change your settings on ff to opk method the o date may be more accurate this time. The few days before o, if you had another temp or two just a little higher it would have confirmed your thoughts in your o date too.
You mentioned soy. How much did you take which days? I noticed your cm pattern was different this time, is that from the soy? Was this your first cycle on soy? I did soy 2 cycles.
Today I ran around all day with dh. He had a meeting at a university so I went along and we went to Sams afterwards. I got a B Complex vitamin to use instead of the B6 and low dose asprin although I haven't studied how to use it yet. I sort of just suggested the idea of my dh getting a SA done, I'll let that rest for a bit now. He finally asked about my results, he didn't seem to get it anyway. I do hope to try Femara next cycle.
Nite.