FOA Edinsam or anyone else if you've gonne through CSA

[edinsam]

well he has done his DNA. I got my letter in today to take Lily and me off for ours. We have 14 days to get it done which is fine as my friend who is a doctor is doing mine so I will get it done straight away this week. Then its 10 - 15 days for the result. Its getting there VERY slowly but getting there. Apparently after that its 4 weeks for the CSA to send out the calculations.. Lets hope that it all goes to plan and by the end of the year I at least know that he's got to pay and by how much. He's never refused to pay, all he has ever said is go to CSA for it. Ive done the calcs myself so I have an idea of what I should get so lets see a) if it comes out like that and b) that he actually does pay cos I still believe that he will lie through his back teeth to reduce his payment

Tinks hope you still progressing this and not taking a back seat

 

[edinsam]

hey im fine, enjoying being a mum, how are you and lily? bet she is growing

oh i hope he doesn't go down the dna route after hearing what you are going through, but if he does i won't give up until he pays up for his son. don't give up either tinkabells, you will get there, wev just got to see it through to the end!

Hey hun - we are doing great - yes she is finally starting to look like a baby now...

How are you keeping now? any better? Up for a visit soon?

 

[tinkabells]

I havent bothered calling them anymore this week, i will start again on monday, im just getting fed up with it all tbh xxx