FOB called when I was on vacation

[Blue_star]

I'v made a bit of posts on here i'm 22 he is 21 I'm Due in September. We had not talked for a over 2 months. I just get home from vacation and see his name on my Caller ID and I found out he moved back into town weeks before that.

I'm afraid if I call him back he was just tell me he called to say how sorry he was for not wanting to be a dad anymore or something that will make me extremely stressed.

 

[gracexxx]

My advice is not to contact or talk to him until after LO is born.
I had many failed attempts at trying to meet up and talk with FOB after he disappeared, and it got me very stressed and upset, which was not good for our unborn baby at all.
Once LO is born, let him come round and let him make the effort, if he really wants to be a part of LO's life then you'll know Good luck

 

[surprisebaby]

i think u should do what feels right for you. I know I would want to resolve issues before the baby is born, but everyone is different.

I think it would be good to hear what he has to say for himself. Good luck xx

 

[lemontree12]

If it's important to him he will ring again. X

 

[Ceejay123]

Agree with Lemontree.. x

 

[teal]

You need to do what's right for you. If you think you'll get worked up/stressed then it might be better to wait. xx